At what point do you become a mature human being? What is a mature human being? When does your life become yours? What does that even mean? A more pointed question could be: what accomplishments should you amass before you can comfortably slide into middle age and stop pushing and climbing? _x000D_ _x000D_ What intellectual, personal and emotional conflicts are most important to resolve before you can call yourself fully developed or ‘self actualized’?_x000D_ _x000D_ For some, this happens earlier than others. For many, it never happens. And for most, it's not even something they ever stopped to think about. Let's at least not fall into the third category. Let's have a discussion about it, shall we? Let’s take this issue from multiple angles - financial, romantic, medical, spiritual, intellectual — and let's figure out when you properly begin your adult life._x000D_ _x000D_ This is going to be enlightening, my friends. All opinions are welcome and all you need to bring is an open mind._x000D_ _x000D_ 在哪一刻你会成为一个成年人？什么是成熟的人？什么时候你会拥有自己的生活？前一句话到底意味着什么？一个更尖锐的问题是：在可以舒适地步入中年并停止攀爬人生巅峰之前，你应该积累哪些成就？_x000D_ _x000D_ 在可以称自己为"充分发展"或 "自我实现 "之前，哪些智力冲突、个人冲突和情感冲突是最重要的，需要解决？_x000D_ _x000D_ 对有些人来说，人生改变比其他人更早发生，对许多人来说，它永远不会发生，然而大多数人甚至无法静下心来思考这件事，让我们至少不要成为第三种人。让我们来讨论一下这个问题，从多个角度来看待这个问题——财务、爱情、医疗、精神、智力——让我们弄清楚何时正确地开始你的成年生活。_x000D_ _x000D_ 这将是有启发性的一次club，朋友们。带着开放的心态，我们欢迎所有的意见。