Ah first dates, we love them and hate them, but mostly hate them. Do they need to be so stressful? Could they possibly be fun? What should you do on a first date? Should you flirt? How do you even flirt? What should you talk about? What shouldn't you talk about? Which questions are ok or not ok to ask? What signs should you be looking for? What should you do and say? What type of message are you trying to send? Is it different when it's two Chinese people versus if one is Chinese and one is a foreigner? If so, how?_x000D_ _x000D_ Let's have a deep discussion about everything to do with the first date. Let's look at it from the perspective of the guy, the girl, the preparation, the awkwardness, and everything else. Let's talk about flirting, dressing, body language, locations, and those elusive signs that the date is going either really well or horribly bad._x000D_ _x000D_ let's have a fun yet incredibly important discussion! _x000D_ _x000D_ 啊，初次约会，我们又爱又恨，但最讨厌的还是初次约会。他们有必要这么紧张吗?它们会有趣吗?第一次约会应该做什么?你应该调情吗?你是怎么调情的?你应该谈些什么?你不该说什么?哪些问题可以问，哪些问题不可以问?你应该寻找什么迹象呢?你应该怎么做，怎么说?你想发送什么类型的信息?如果有，怎么做?_x000D_ _x000D_ 让我们深入讨论一下关于第一次约会的所有事情。让我们从男孩，女孩，约会中的准备，约会中的尴尬，和其他所有的角度来看看。让我们来谈谈调情、着装、肢体语言、地点，以及那些难以捉摸的迹象，这些迹象会表明约会进行得顺利或糟糕。_x000D_ _x000D_ 让我们来进行一次有趣而又非常重要的讨论吧!