Leon, your host for today, is a psychologist, and in his famous "Psychology Of" clubs, we break down different parts of the human condition and discuss the psychology behind them in ways that simplify the complex and allow us to go deeply into why we are the way we are. This time, we'll look at the psychology of one of the most difficult things we can do in life: letting go.
What does it really mean to let go? And why is it that releasing a person, a dream, or a version of ourselves can feel harder than holding on? In this psychology-focused discussion hosted by Leon, a practising psychologist with a gift for making complex ideas feel human, we’ll explore the emotional architecture behind letting go. Is it something we should do, or does “moving on” sometimes cost us more than staying connected? And how do we tell the difference between healthy acceptance and premature avoidance?
Together, we’ll dive into selected scenes from a beautiful film called Robot Dreams (you might cry, and it's ok if you do!), using the film’s tender, wordless storytelling as a springboard for deeper questions about loss, attachment, and renewal. You’ll reflect on why some people rebound into a new relationship, why others freeze in place, and what psychology really says about the healthiest path forward. Whether you’re processing a breakup, rethinking a long-held dream, or simply curious about how humans heal, this session offers insight, clarity, and a thoughtful space to explore the art, and science, of letting go.
今天的主持人Leon是一位心理学家，他发起的“Psychology Of”系列沙龙特别受欢迎，我们会一起拆解人类心理中那些微妙又复杂的部分，用通俗易懂的方式聊聊我们为什么会是现在这个样子。这次的主题，是我们人生中最难做到的事之一：放手。
到底什么才算“真正的放下”？为什么有时候，放下一个人、一个梦想，或者过去的那个自己，反而比继续抓住更难？在这场以心理学为核心的讨论里，Leon会带我们深入了解“放手”背后的情感结构。他会聊聊：“放下”是不是我们应该做的？“向前看”有时候会不会比“继续维系”更消耗我们？我们又该怎么判断，这是健康的接受，还是一种过早的逃避？
我们会一起看几段来自温柔电影《机器人之梦》的精选片段（可能会让你哭，哭了也没关系！），借助这部几乎无对白的动画片，用它细腻的情感表达，引出关于失去、依附与重启的更深层问题。你会开始思考：为什么有些人分手后立刻投入下一段关系？为什么有些人却完全停滞不前？心理学又是怎么看待“真正走出来”的？
不管你现在正在疗愈一段关系的结束，重新思考一个旧梦想，还是单纯对人类的情绪复原力感到好奇，这次的分享都会带来一些洞见、一些清晰，也提供一个安全的空间，让我们一起聊聊“放下”这件事，既是门艺术，也是一门科学。
