In this club, as with all of David's clubs, you're encouraged to ask questions, give opinions, and even disagree. Although the topic gives us a general direction, the discussion will go wherever we take it, together. It will be deep, judgment-free, and fascinating!_x000D_ _x000D_ Many of us have just returned from a holiday at home with family and many of us have a lot to unpack. Let's do that with David, a chief psychological counselor and somebody who truly cares about people._x000D_ _x000D_ Can a line be drawn between you as a person and you as a part of your family? What constitutes family? Is it just about blood or is there more to it? Is there an implied transaction between family members? Do we owe something to our parents, kids, or siblings? Extended family? How much of who you are, the choices you make, and the life you live are directly connected to your family? How much of what you do, think, and feel is out of duty to your family? How much of it is out of love, sacrifice, instinct, or even trauma?_x000D_ _x000D_ Let's have an open-minded and intelligent discussion rooted in family psychology and differential psychology (the psychology of the individual) and how they work both with and against each other._x000D_ _x000D_ 在这个俱乐部里，就像在David的所有俱乐部里一样，你被鼓励提出问题，发表意见。虽然这个话题给了我们一个大致的方向，但我们会一起进行更加深入的讨论。它将是深刻的，没有评判的，迷人的!_x000D_ _x000D_ 我们当中许多人刚刚和家人一起度假回来，我们当中很多人要直抒胸臆。让我们和David一起做吧，他是首席心理咨询师，也是一个真正关心别人的人。_x000D_ _x000D_ 作为一个人的你和作为家庭成员的你之间能划清界限吗?什么是家庭?只是因为血缘还是有其他原因?家庭成员之间是否存在隐含交易?我们欠父母、孩子或兄弟姐妹什么吗?大家庭?你是谁，你所做的选择，你所过的生活有多少是与你的家庭直接相关的?你所做、所想、所感受的，有多少是出于对家庭的责任?有多少是出于爱、牺牲、本能，甚至是创伤?_x000D_ _x000D_ 让我们以家庭心理学和差异心理学(个体心理学)为基础，进行一场开放而睿智的讨论，了解它们是如何相互配合又相互矛盾的。