In this club, as with all of David's clubs, you're encouraged to ask questions, give opinions, and even disagree. Although the topic gives us a general direction, the discussion will go wherever we take it, together. It will be deep, judgment-free, and fascinating!_x000D_ _x000D_  _x000D_ _x000D_ From the point of view of psychology, how and where do we separate the self from the family? Would the answer be different depending on your culture or upbringing? And, if so, how do those differences manifest themselves psychologically, according to science, rather than an oversimplified cultural generalisation?_x000D_ _x000D_  _x000D_ _x000D_ Can a line be drawn between you as a person and you as a part of your family? What constitutes family? Is it just about blood or is there more to it? Is there an implied transaction between family members? Do we owe something to our parents, kids, or siblings? Extended family? How much of who you are, the choices you make, and the life you live are directly connected to your family? How much of what you do, think, and feel is out of duty to your family? How much of it is out of love, sacrifice, instinct, or even trauma?_x000D_ _x000D_  _x000D_ _x000D_ Let's have an open-minded and intelligent discussion rooted in family psychology and differential psychology (the psychology of the individual) and how they work both with and against each other._x000D_ _x000D_  _x000D_ _x000D_ 在本俱乐部中，就像David主持的所有俱乐部一样，大家鼓励提问、发表意见，甚至提出不同观点。尽管话题为我们提供了一个大致方向，但讨论将根据我们的共同思考走向任何地方。它将是深刻的、无评判的、引人入胜的！_x000D_ _x000D_  _x000D_ _x000D_ 从心理学的角度来看，我们如何以及在何处将自我与家庭区分开来？这个答案会因文化或成长背景的不同而有所不同吗？如果是，科学上，这些差异是如何在心理上表现出来的，而不是简单的文化泛化？_x000D_ _x000D_  _x000D_ _x000D_ 我们能否在你作为个人和你作为家庭一员之间划出界限？什么才是家庭？它仅仅是血缘关系，还是还有其他的因素？家庭成员之间是否存在某种隐性交易？我们是否对父母、孩子或兄弟姐妹有所欠债？扩展家庭呢？你是谁、你做的选择、你过的生活有多少是直接与家庭相关的？你做、想、感受的有多少是出于对家庭的责任？又有多少是出于爱、牺牲、本能，甚至是创伤？_x000D_ _x000D_  _x000D_ _x000D_ 让我们进行一场开放、理性并且深入的讨论，根植于家庭心理学和差异心理学（个人心理学），并探讨它们是如何相互作用、互为影响的。