Would you consider yourself to be a confident person? Perhaps a better question is: in what types of situations do you feel confident and unconfident? An even deeper question, and the topic of today's club would be: where does your confidence originate from? It usually comes from some sort of validation. This validation can be external (teachers, friends, parents, society etc.) or internal (yourself). What's the difference between those two types of validation and the confidence they bring you? Do you seek validation in your life? And if so, which type do you seek?_x000D_ _x000D_ _x000D_ Let's have an important, intelligent, and judgment-free discussion about the sources of validation that bring you confidence. We can all agree that confidence is incredibly important, in short supply, and can open doors and possibilities that would be invisible without it. But in this club, let's talk about the source of confidence and try to better understand why you have or lack confidence and what you could do to get more, or even to get a longer-lasting, healthier type of it._x000D_ _x000D_ _x000D_ As always, we'll look at data, case studies, and share our own experiences, hopes and fears. Let's have an intelligent psychological discussion!_x000D_ _x000D_ _x000D_ 你认为自己是一个自信的人吗？也许更好的问题是：在什么情况下你感到自信或不自信？一个更深层次的问题，也是今天俱乐部的主题是：你的自信来自哪里？自信通常源于某种验证。这种验证可以是外部的（老师、朋友、父母、社会等）或内部的（你自己）。这两种类型的验证以及它们带给你的自信有什么区别？你在生活中寻求验证吗？如果是这样，你寻求哪种类型的验证？_x000D_ _x000D_ _x000D_ 让我们进行一次重要、智能且无偏见的讨论，探讨带给你自信的验证来源。我们都同意，自信是非常重要的，虽然稀缺，但能打开许多看不见的机会之门。在这个俱乐部中，让我们讨论自信的来源，努力更好地理解你为什么拥有或缺乏自信，以及你可以做些什么来获得更多，或者获得一种更持久、更健康的自信。_x000D_ _x000D_ _x000D_ 一如既往，我们将查看数据、案例研究，并分享我们自己的经验、希望和恐惧。让我们进行一次聪明的心理学讨论吧！