So what does that title really mean? In a relationship, can you love someone but not be in love with them? Is that good or bad? Is it inevitable? How important is love, and being in love, in society today? In a modern and secular world, is love the new religion? Is it something we aspire to? Or something we can use as a goal which we might not achieve but maybe that's ok?_x000D_ _x000D_ Let's talk about love from a sociological standpoint. Let's talk about it as individuals and as parts of a greater society. Let's look at love as a belief system and question whether or not we believe in it or live by it. _x000D_ _x000D_ 那么这个标题到底是什么意思呢?在一段关系中，你能爱一个人却不和他恋爱吗?这是好事还是坏事?这是不可避免的吗?在当今社会，爱和恋爱有多重要?在现代和世俗的世界里，爱是一种新的信仰吗?这是我们所渴望的吗?或者我们可以把它作为我们可能无法实现的目标，但也许这没关系?_x000D_ _x000D_ 让我们从社会学的角度来谈谈爱。让我们作为个人和社会的一部分来讨论这个问题。让我们把爱看作一种信仰体系，并谈谈我们是否应该相信它，是否应该以爱为名来生活。