Are you familiar with the term Nonviolent Communication (NVC)? It's not about avoiding conflict, it's far deeper than that. How can you communicate in such a way that everybody involved feels heard? How different would a conversation be if everyone's fundamental needs were understood and trying to be met? Imagine a method of communication that values, above all else, interpersonal harmony and obtaining knowledge for future cooperation. Let's learn about, discuss, and practice it together!_x000D_ _x000D_ A lot of people get NVC wrong. As stated above, it's about avoiding conflict. In fact, conflict happens but that doesn't have to be a bad thing. Quite the opposite, if handled well with the strategies of NVC, conflict can be great and certainly shouldn't be something you're afraid of. The point is to approach communication with empathy and logic. Do you think you do that when you communicate in English?_x000D_ _x000D_ This will be fun, enlightening and potentially transformative. Contrary to popular belief, the span of your vocabulary is not what makes you an effective communicator. Your ability to listen, truly listen, to speak logically and with empathy, and to reach common goals are. It's not what you say, it's how you say it, how it makes people feel, and how well you can listen. Let's have a life-changing two hours together!_x000D_ _x000D_ 你熟悉非暴力沟通(NVC)这个术语吗?这不是为了避免冲突，它远不止于此。你怎样才能让每个参与的人都感到被倾听?如果每个人的基本需求都被理解并试图得到满足，那么谈话将会有多大的不同?想象一种沟通方式，它首先重视人际和谐，并为未来的合作获取知识。让我们一起学习、讨论和练习吧!_x000D_ _x000D_ 很多人都误解了NVC。如上所述，这是为了避免冲突。事实上，冲突发生了，但这并不一定是坏事。恰恰相反，如果使用NVC策略处理得当，冲突可以是很好的，当然不应该是你害怕的事情。关键是要用同理心和逻辑来进行沟通。你认为你在用英语交流的时候会这样做吗?_x000D_ _x000D_ 这将是有趣的，启发性的和潜在的变革性的。与普遍的看法相反，词汇量的广度并不能使你成为一个有效的沟通者。你倾听的能力，真正倾听的能力，有逻辑地、有同理心地说话的能力，以及达成共同目标的能力。重要的不是你说了什么，而是你怎么说，它给人的感觉如何，以及你能听得多好。让我们共度改变人生的两个小时吧!