People throw around the term "stay positive" a lot lately. In fact, it's kind of lost its meaning. At what point does positivity become toxic? Surely we can't always simply stay positive and let that be what saves us from our inevitable challenges and obstacles. But a positive mindset is still definitely a necessary tool, right? So how can we differentiate between the two? When is a positive mindset a healthy basis for moving forward, and when is it toxic positivity?_x000D_ _x000D_ Here's the thing, we are emotional creatures. That includes fear, anger, disgust, and anxiety. Those feelings are part of us, they're talking to us and they interfere with positivity. We need to listen to them. So where's the balance? In this club, we'll look at positivity in both its negative and, well, positive forms. We'll look at real data and case studies and we'll share our own experiences._x000D_ _x000D_ When people give you the advice to "just stay positive", when should you thank them and when should you tell them to shut the f*%# up? Let's have a deep and important discussion!_x000D_ _x000D_ 最近人们经常提到“保持积极”这个词。事实上，它已经失去了它的意义。积极性在什么时候会变成有毒的?当然，我们不能总是简单地保持积极的态度，让它把我们从不可避免的挑战和障碍中拯救出来。但积极的心态仍然是一个必要的工具，对吧?那么我们如何区分这两者呢?什么时候积极的心态是向前发展的健康基础，什么时候是有害的积极?_x000D_ _x000D_ 事情是这样的，我们是有感情的生物。这包括恐惧、愤怒、厌恶和焦虑。这些感觉是我们的一部分，它们对我们说话，干扰我们的积极性。我们需要倾听他们的声音。那么平衡在哪里呢?在这个俱乐部里，我们将从消极和积极的两种形式来看待积极。我们将着眼于真实的数据和案例研究，并分享我们自己的经验。_x000D_ _x000D_ 当人们建议你“保持积极”时，你应该什么时候感谢他们，什么时候让他们闭嘴?让我们进行一次深入而重要的讨论吧!