In Kate's Sincere Discussion series, we share, listen, and discuss openly the things that make life both simple and complicated at the same time. We're all on this journey together, and we're all equally confused, so maybe if we talk about it, we can feel a bit less alone and a bit more understood and capable of understanding!_x000D_ _x000D_ This week, let's talk about something we can't always have, many of us chase, and some of us have trouble functioning without: control!_x000D_ _x000D_ Love, career, travel, friendships, finance, family, crossing the street... Life is full of scenarios with uncontrollable variables. How are you at navigating them? _x000D_ _x000D_ What are the things in your life you can and can't control? What should you keep trying to assert control over? What should you accept as something that's out of your control? How good are you at dealing with things you can't control? If a situation has too many uncontrollable variables, will you stay away from it? How do you define this? _x000D_ _x000D_ We all know that life is full of things we can't control. Some of us strive in situations where this is the case, others don't do as well, and yet others avoid those situations at all costs._x000D_ _x000D_ Let's talk about our relationship with the things we can and can't control. Let's share our experiences. Let's have a supportive, open-minded, and potentially life-altering discussion!_x000D_ _x000D_ 在Kate的真诚讨论系列中，我们分享、倾听并公开讨论那些让生活既简单又复杂的事情。我们都在这段旅程中，我们都同样困惑，所以让我们一起聊聊，我们或许会感到少一点孤独，多一点理解和理解的能力!_x000D_ _x000D_ 本周，让我们谈谈我们不能总是拥有的东西，我们中的许多人都在追求，我们中的一些人在没有控制的情况下会遇到麻烦!_x000D_ _x000D_ 爱情、事业、旅行、友谊、财务、家庭、过马路……生活充满了不可控变量的场景。你是如何驾驭它们的?_x000D_ _x000D_ 在你的生活中，哪些事情是你能控制的，哪些是你不能控制的?你应该继续尝试控制什么?你应该接受什么是你无法控制的事情?你有多擅长处理你无法控制的事情?如果一种情况有太多无法控制的变量，你会远离它吗?你怎么定义这个?_x000D_ _x000D_ 我们都知道生活中充满了我们无法控制的事情。我们中的一些人在这种情况下努力奋斗，另一些人做得不好，还有一些人不惜一切代价避免这种情况。_x000D_ _x000D_ 让我们谈谈我们与我们能控制和不能控制的事物的关系。让我们分享我们的经验。让我们进行一次相互支持、思想开放、可能改变人生的讨论吧!