In Kate's Sincere Discussion series, we share, listen, and discuss openly the things that make life both simple and complicated at the same time. We're all on this journey together, and we're all equally confused, so maybe if we talk about it, we can feel a bit less alone and a bit more understood and capable of understanding!_x000D_ _x000D_ This week, let's talk honestly and openly about our goals (or the lack thereof)._x000D_ _x000D_ What are your goals for life, for next year, for tonight? Are they actually yours or are they someone else's? What if you have no goals at all? Are your goals now the same as they were when you were younger? Are they the same now as they were last year? Career goals, relationship goals, family goals, travel goals, small goals, big goals... Are your goals based on money, social status, gaining other people's approval or something else? Is it selfish if your goal is simply to be happy?_x000D_ _x000D_ Let's have an open-minded and judgment free conversations about goals._x000D_ _x000D_ 在Kate的真诚讨论系列中，我们分享、倾听并公开讨论那些让生活既简单又复杂的事情。我们都有过同样的经历，我们都同样困惑，所以也许如果我们谈论它，我们会感到少一点孤独，多一点理解，并培养自己理解包容的能力！_x000D_ _x000D_ 本周，让我们开诚布公地谈谈我们的目标(或缺乏目标)。_x000D_ _x000D_ 你的人生目标是什么，明年的目标是什么，今晚的目标是什么?它们到底是你的还是别人的?如果你根本没有目标怎么办?你现在的目标和你年轻的时候一样吗?他们现在和去年一样吗?职业目标、人际关系目标、家庭目标、旅行目标、小目标、大目标……你的目标是基于金钱、社会地位、获得他人的认可还是其他什么?如果你的目标仅仅是快乐，这是自私的表现吗?_x000D_ _x000D_ 让我们就目标展开一场开放的、自由的对话。