Why do you believe you’re “good” or “not good enough”? Smart or not smart? Attractive or average? Confident or awkward? Have you ever stopped to ask where those ideas actually came from — and how many of your decisions quietly follow them? In this special session with Leslie, we’ll explore the powerful stories we carry about ourselves — stories often shaped by parents, teachers, partners, friends and early experiences. These beliefs feel personal and permanent, but are they? And more importantly, are they still serving you?

 

Together, we’ll question whether we need to stay boxed inside identities formed years ago. Are you still living according to a version of yourself that was defined by someone else? This will be an honest, thoughtful discussion about self-image, influence and choice — not about “fixing” yourself, but about understanding the invisible narratives guiding your life. If you’re ready to examine the beliefs you’ve inherited and decide which ones deserve to stay, this conversation will be quietly powerful and deeply clarifying.

 

为什么你会觉得自己“挺不错”或者“还不够好”？聪明或不聪明？好看或普通？自信或别扭？你有没有认真想过，这些想法最初是从哪里来的？又有多少决定，其实是在悄悄跟着这些信念走？

 

在这场由 Leslie 带领的特别讨论中，我们会聊聊那些我们对自己讲了很多年的故事。这些故事往往来自父母、老师、伴侣、朋友和早期经历。它们听起来很私人，也像是永远不变的标签，但真的是这样吗？更重要的是，它们现在还在帮你吗？

 

我们会一起问一个问题：我们是不是还活在几年前被定义好的那个版本里？是不是还在按照别人给出的“设定”过日子？这是一场关于自我形象、影响和选择的真诚对话。重点不是“改造自己”，而是看清那些在背后默默影响你的叙事。如果你愿意重新审视自己继承来的信念，决定哪些留下、哪些放下，这场讨论会慢慢带来一种很清晰的感觉。