Are you familiar with the term incel? It's a combination of two words: involuntary and celibate, and it describes men who are unable to have romantic relationships of any kind despite wanting to and trying to. Is this a new thing? Why is this happening? Does it only exist in western culture or is it here as well? There seems to be, at least for this part of the population, a serious disconnect between single females and single males these days. Why?_x000D_ _x000D_ The incel subculture is one of the most talked about online right now. Men are simply saying that they just can't connect with women. Is this a result of us inching closer and closer ot gender equality? Is the expectation of males becoming unrealistic? Are females becoming too independent? Why is there this disconnect? And, if it exists here in China, is it for the same reasons as the West?_x000D_ _x000D_ Let's look at online discussions, real data, real scenarios, and let's share our own experiences. Let's have a judgment-free and fascinating discussion!_x000D_ _x000D_ 你熟悉incel这个词吗?它是两个词的组合:involuntary（非自愿的）和celibate（独身主义者），它描述的是那些尽管想要并试图拥有任何一种浪漫关系却无法拥有的人。这是新事物吗?为什么会发生这种情况?它只存在于西方文化中，还是也存在于这里?至少对这部分人来说，如今单身男女之间似乎存在着严重的脱节。为什么?_x000D_ _x000D_ incel亚文化是目前网上讨论最多的话题之一。男人只是说他们无法与女人沟通。这是我们离性别平等越来越近的结果吗?对男性的期望变得不现实了吗?女性是否变得过于独立?为什么会有这种脱节?如果它在中国存在，它的原因和西方一样吗?_x000D_ _x000D_ 让我们看看网上的讨论，真实的数据，真实的场景，让我们分享我们自己的经验。让我们来一场没有偏见的精彩讨论吧!