Is there such a thing as being too nice? Where does genuine kindness end and people-pleasing, conflict avoidance or weakness begin? Are we actually becoming less kind to one another, or are people today simply more willing to set boundaries and say what they really think? And what about that famous warning that “nice guys finish last”, is there any truth to it, or have we confused kindness with a lack of confidence? In this guided discussion, we’ll examine niceness itself from different angles, exploring when it makes our relationships and communities better, when it might cost us something, and whether you can be deeply kind while still being strong, ambitious and willing to say no.

The discussion will be hosted by Tasha, whose clubs are known for their interaction, intelligence and depth. Highly empathic as well as thoughtful, Tasha is the kind of host who genuinely listens to what you have to say, encourages you to speak and supports you regardless of where you stand. Together, we’ll challenge some easy assumptions about kindness and look at both sides: whether the world needs more niceness, whether too much of it can become unhealthy, and whether the strongest form of kindness sometimes looks very different from simply being agreeable. Come with your experiences, your opinions and your questions, this will be a warm, supportive space for a surprisingly deep conversation about how we treat other people, and how we want them to treat us.

这个世界上有没有“太好”这回事？真正的善良到哪里为止，讨好型人格、回避冲突和软弱又从哪里开始？我们人与人之间是不是真的变得越来越不善良了，还是说现在的人只是更愿意设立边界、说出真实想法？还有那句著名的“好人没好报”——它到底有没有道理，还是我们把善良和没自信搞混了？在这场引导式讨论中，我们会从不同角度审视“好”本身，探讨它什么时候让我们的关系和社区变得更好，什么时候又可能会让我们付出代价，以及你能不能既保持善良，同时又有力量、有野心、敢于说“不”。

这场讨论由Tasha主持，她的俱乐部一向以互动强、有深度又聪明著称。Tasha本人既非常有同理心，又善于思考，是那种真的会听你说话、鼓励你表达、不管你站在哪边都会支持你的主持。我们会一起挑战一些关于善良的简单假设，从两边来看：这个世界是不是需要更多善良，还是说太多善良反而可能不健康，以及最强有力的善良有时候看起来其实和“好好先生”很不一样。带上你的经历、你的观点、你的疑问来吧，这会是一个温暖又支持的空间，让你去聊一个意外有深度的话题——我们怎么对待别人，以及我们希望别人怎么对待我们。