Leon is a practising psychological therapist, and in his "Psychology Of" clubs, he breaks down, in simple terms, the psychology behind our most human decision-making systems. Why are you the way you are? Why are humans like this? Is it you? Your trauma? Your upbringing? Your experiences? How do all those affect how you see the world and act in it?
This time, let's look at the psychology behind one of the most beautiful things of all, falling in love!
What actually happens when two strangers fall in love? What happens in their brains? Why do they fall in love? What is the psychology behind attraction? Why would you be attracted to someone, and your friend wouldn't be attracted to the same person? Is it their looks? Their personality? Their voice? Their smell? All of it? Something else? Do you have any control over any of it?
What do the many studies on love and attraction tell us about all of this? What do the experts say? What can we learn from actual physical data? What experiments have been done on the topic?
Let's look at it from a psychological point of view with Leon, an actual psychologist. Let's have a lovely and fascinating discussion!
Leon是一位执业的心理治疗师。在他主理的“心理学揭秘”系列活动中，他会用特别直白的大白话，把那些最贴近我们人性的决策机制背后的心理原理讲清楚。你为什么是现在这个样子？人类为什么会有这种那种的反应？这到底是你自己的问题，还是创伤的影响，又或是成长环境和经历造成的？这些东西又是如何影响你看待世界、以及在世界上怎么行动的？
这次，咱们要来聊聊那个最美好的事情之一——坠入爱河背后的心理秘密！
两个陌生人怎么就爱上了？他们的大脑里到底在发生什么？为什么会喜欢上对方？吸引力背后的心理机制是什么？为什么你会对某个人上头，而你的朋友却完全无感？是因为长相？性格？声音？味道？还是所有这些加在一起？又或者是一些别的什么？在这整个过程中，你到底有没有一点点掌控力？
那些关于爱情和吸引力的研究，到底告诉了我们什么？专家们是怎么说的？我们从实实在在的数据里能学到什么？科学家们在这个话题上都做过哪些实验？
这一次，就让我们跟着真正的心理学家Leon，从一个心理学的视角来看一看这一切。一起来聊点美好又迷人的话题吧！
