Leon is a practising psychological therapist, and in his "Psychology Of" clubs, he breaks down, in simple terms, the psychology behind our most human decision-making systems. Why are you the way you are? Why are humans like this? Is it you? Your trauma? Your upbringing? Your experiences? How do all those affect how you see the world and act in it?
Tonight, let's look at the psychology surrounding something that touches all of our lives, directly or indirectly, the tangping movement!
Why are more and more people feeling tempted to quietly step away from the race? What happens psychologically when a generation begins to question ambition, productivity, and the promise that hard work will necessarily lead to fulfillment? And is the tangping (“lying flat”) movement really laziness and disengagement, or something deeper: exhaustion, disillusionment, self-protection, or even resistance? In this discussion, we’ll explore the psychology behind one of the most talked-about social movements of recent years and what it reveals about modern life, pressure, identity, and the human condition.
Together, we’ll examine the emotional and behavioural roots of tangping through the lens of psychology, sociology, and lived experience. Why do some people withdraw when systems feel overwhelming or unwinnable, while others push harder? Is “lying flat” an unhealthy coping mechanism, a rational adaptation, or perhaps even a search for a different definition of meaning and success? We’ll discuss burnout, motivation, learned helplessness, social expectations, freedom, and the tension between individual wellbeing and collective pressure. This will be a thoughtful, nuanced, and open conversation welcoming all perspectives, whether you deeply relate to tangping, strongly disagree with it, or are simply curious about why the movement resonates so strongly with so many people today.
Leon 在职从事心理咨询工作,在心理主题分享活动里,他会用通俗的方式拆解人们各类行为决策背后的心理逻辑。我们为何会形成当下的性格特质?人类普遍的行为心理特点从何而来?自身性格、过往伤痛、成长环境、人生经历,都会潜移默化影响个人认知与处事方式。
今晚我们就来聊聊和大众生活息息相关的躺平现象。
越来越多人萌生放慢脚步、脱离内卷竞争的想法,背后心理动因是什么?当一代人开始质疑奋斗目标、工作价值,不再坚信努力就可以收获满足,内心会出现怎样的变化?躺平真的只是懈怠消极、逃避生活,还是身心疲惫、心生失望后的自我保护,或是一种无声的态度表达?本次交流剖析这一热门社会现象的心理成因,透过现象看清当代生活现状、生活压力、自我定位与大众心理状态。
结合心理学、社会学知识与真实生活体验,分析躺平心态的情绪根源与行为诱因。面对高压难以突破的处境,有人选择放缓脚步,有人依旧奋力前行,选择差异背后的原因值得探讨。躺平是消极的情绪排解方式,还是贴合现实的处事选择,亦或是人们追寻全新价值定义的途径?我们一同讨论身心耗竭、行动动力、习得性无助、社会期许、个人自由,以及个人身心状态和集体压力之间的矛盾关系。活动包容各类观点,无论你认同躺平心态、持反对看法,或是单纯好奇这一现象广受共鸣的原因,都可以畅所欲言交流想法。