What would happen if women dated “like men”? Would they be freer to enjoy sex without expecting a relationship? And what are we assuming about men when we ask that question? Join Keiara, a die-hard Sex and the City fan who could happily talk for hours about what the show gets right and what it gets wrong, for a Watch & Talk featuring scenes from the very first episode. Following four friends as they navigate dating in New York, the show helped change how pop culture talked about women’s desire, friendship and independence. For many viewers, especially women across generations and cultures, it became part of growing up and figuring out what they wanted from dating, sex and relationships.

We’ll use the pilot’s sharp jokes and awkward encounters to ask what’s changed since it aired and which double standards still feel familiar. Who gets to be casual about sex without being judged? When does dating on your own terms feel liberating, and when does pretending not to care become another kind of pressure? We’ll make room for laughs, disagreement and a closer look at the show’s take on feminism, men and relationships. Never seen an episode? Keiara will introduce the characters and set up each scene. All you need is curiosity about the unwritten rules of dating... and who gets to break them.

Let's sit back with good friends in comfy chairs and watch a TV show that totally changed the conversation on dating, sex and adulthood. And, of course, let's have smart, fun and deep discussions about our mutual journey!

如果女人“像男人那样”约会，会发生什么？她们会不会更自由地享受性，而不期待一段关系？以及，当我们问这个问题的时候，我们其实在假设男人什么？跟着 Keiara 来一场观影聊片吧。她是《欲望都市》死忠粉，能开开心心聊好几个小时这部剧哪里对、哪里不对。这次我们看第一集里的片段。这部剧跟着四个朋友在纽约约会，帮流行文化改变了谈论女性欲望、友谊和独立的方式。对很多观众，尤其是不同代际、不同文化的女性来说，它成了成长的一部分，也成了搞清楚自己对约会、性和关系到底想要什么的一部分。

我们会用试播集里那些犀利的笑话和尴尬的遭遇，问问从它播出到现在什么变了，哪些双重标准还是让人觉得熟悉。谁可以随便谈性而不被评判？什么时候“按自己的规则约会”让人觉得自由，又是什么时候“假装不在乎”变成了另一种压力？我们会留出空间给笑声、不同意见，也会更仔细地看这部剧对女权主义、男人和关系的处理。一集都没看过？Keiara 会介绍角色，也会把每个片段的前因后果讲清楚。你只需要对约会那些不成文的规则有点好奇……以及，谁有资格打破它们。

大家一起窝在舒服的椅子里，跟好朋友一起看一部彻底改变了关于约会、性和成年人的对话的剧。当然，也少不了围绕我们共同经历的那些事儿，来一场聪明、好玩又深入的聊天！