What are the weird, strange, and down-right crazy things we do in love and realtionships and why do we do them? Why do some people fall in love after two dates, while others keep an ex in their life for years? What is love bombing and stanning? Why do some people test their partners? In this fascinating discussion, we'll explore some of the strangest behaviours people display in love and relationships, and the surprisingly logical psychology behind them. From modern dating trends like breadcrumbing and parasocial relationships to timeless patterns like jealousy, rebound relationships and trying to "fix" a partner, we'll ask not just what people do, but why they do it.

Along the way, you'll have the chance to reflect on your own experiences, share stories, and discover which of these behaviours you've encountered in your own life, or perhaps even recognised in yourself. Are these habits signs of insecurity, manipulation, hope, loneliness... or simply part of being human? Whether you're happily single, dating, in a relationship or just endlessly fascinated by human behaviour, this will be an eye-opening, thought-provoking conversation that will leave you understanding love, and people, a little better.

在爱情和亲密关系中，我们都做过哪些怪异、离谱甚至疯狂的事？又是什么驱使了这些行为？为什么有人两次约会就坠入爱河，有人却把前任留在生活中好几年？什么是“爱情轰炸”和“狂热崇拜”？为什么有些人总忍不住试探伴侣？在这场引人入胜的讨论中，我们将探索人们在恋爱中展现出的种种奇特行为，以及其背后令人惊讶的心理逻辑。从“面包屑式撩拨”、“准社会关系”等现代约会新趋势，到嫉妒、反弹式恋爱、试图“改造”伴侣等亘古不变的模式，我们不仅要问人们做了什么，更要追问他们为什么这么做。

在此过程中，你将有机会反思自身经历、分享故事，并发现哪些行为曾出现在你的生活中，甚至在你自己身上也有迹可循。这些习惯究竟是不安全感、操控欲、希望、孤独的体现……还是生而为人的正常部分？无论你是享受单身、正在约会、身处关系中，还是单纯对人类行为充满好奇，这场大开眼界、发人深省的对话都将让你对爱情和人性有更深刻的理解。