Have you ever wanted something or wanted someone to do something but you were afraid to ask for it? Do you ever feel resentful, overwhelmed, under appreciated, or frustrated wishing people would stop doing something you don't like? Or that they would start doing something you do like? Or do you feel like people aren't valuing you, your time, your contribution, or your opinion highly enough?_x000D_ _x000D_ Guess what? This happens to everyone! Let's talk about it and let's practice fine art of asking for what you really want!_x000D_ _x000D_ The thing is, other people rarely care as much about what we desire or prefer as we do. Yet when those needs or preferences aren't being met or fulfilled, we're often not engaging in the conversations we need to in order to pursue the changes we want. What if we all deserve happiness? What if the only thing in between us and getting what we want is in how we communicate those needs? Most people aren't mind readers, right?_x000D_ _x000D_ In tonight's club, we'll be learning and practicing the advice of a US author, founder of Global Courage and a board member of the Forbes School of Business._x000D_ _x000D_ 你是否曾经想要什么，或想求人做事，但却不敢开口？当你希望人们停止做你讨厌的事情时，你是否感到怨恨、迷茫、不被尊重或沮丧？你是否觉得人们对你、你的时间、你的价值或观点不够重视？_x000D_ _x000D_ 你猜怎么着？每个人都是这样的！让我们谈谈这个话题，让我们练习询问自己真正想要的，这是一门艺术！_x000D_ _x000D_ 很少有人像我们一样真正关心自己想要的。然而，当自我需求没有得到满足时，我们通常不会开始追求我们想要的改变。如果我们都值得获得幸福呢？如果想获得自己想要的，唯一需要的就是学会传达这些需求呢？毕竟大多数人都不会读心术，对吧？_x000D_ _x000D_ 在今晚的club中，我们将向一位美国作家、全球勇气创始人和福布斯商学院董事会成员寻求建议。