Are you familiar with the psychological term borderline personality disorder (BPD)? People with BPD often have an intense fear of abandonment and instability. As a result, they have trouble managing emotions, have high distress levels, are easily offended, and may act impulsively. How would you identify this in a person? How is it different from the more standard but manageable fear of instability, abandonment and loneliness many of us already have?_x000D_ _x000D_  _x000D_ _x000D_ David is a chief psychological counsellor, and he deals with BPD in many of his clients regularly. Is this something we're born with? Or could it caused by trauma? Or even by an environment we spend a lot of time in? In this club, we'd like to go really deep into BPD and the general fear of abandonment, loneliness and instability that seems to be on the rise these days. _x000D_ _x000D_  _x000D_ _x000D_ Bring your questions, your experiences, your fears and your hopes. Let's have an intelligent, judgment-free, and enlightening psychological conversation as we journey to better understand ourselves and the world around us!_x000D_ _x000D_  _x000D_ _x000D_ 你了解边缘性人格障碍（BPD）这个心理学术语吗？BPD患者往往极度害怕被遗弃和不稳定。因此，他们管理情绪有困难，容易感到极度痛苦，容易受伤，可能会冲动行事。你如何判断一个人是否有BPD？这与我们许多人都有的对不稳定、被遗弃和孤独的恐惧有何不同？_x000D_ _x000D_  _x000D_ _x000D_ David是一位资深心理顾问，他经常处理客户的BPD问题。这是天生的吗？还是由创伤引起的？或者是我们长期所处的环境造成的？在这个俱乐部，我们想要深入探讨BPD，以及我们日益增长的对被遗弃、孤独和不稳定的恐惧。_x000D_ _x000D_  _x000D_ _x000D_ 带上你的疑问、你的经历、你的恐惧和你的愿望。让我们进行一场充满智慧、无评判、启发性的心理学对话，帮助我们更好地理解自己和周围的世界！