What does it mean if somebody is "hot"? Why would one person find them hot while another wouldn't? And more importantly, what do neuroscience and psychology have to say about it? How does our brain decide if a person is hot or not? What do these differences in our decisions say about us? Is it purely about our physical brain (neuroscience) or does it have more to do with our own life experience, trauma, and so on (psychology)? _x000D_ _x000D_ Lily is a psychotherapist who's studied this extensively and deals with it in her work every day. Let's go deep into the psychology and neuroscience of what makes others attractive and to whom. Let's look at case studies, data, proven wisdom, and theoretical science. Let's talk about our own opinions and experiences. Let's have a fascinating discussion!_x000D_ _x000D_ 如果某人很"hot"是什么意思?为什么有人觉得她们性感，而另一个人不觉得?更重要的是，神经科学和心理学对此有何看法?我们的大脑是如何判断一个人是否性感的?我们在决策上的这些差异说明了我们的什么呢?它仅仅是关于我们的物理大脑(神经科学)还是与我们自己的生活经历、创伤等(心理学)有更多的关系?_x000D_ _x000D_ Lily是一名心理治疗师，她对这个问题进行了广泛的研究，每天都在工作中处理这个问题。让我们深入研究一下心理学和神经科学，看看是什么让别人有吸引力，对谁有吸引力。让我们看看案例研究、数据、经过验证的智慧和理论科学。让我们谈谈自己的看法和经历。让我们来一个精彩的讨论吧!