Lily, from China, a psychotherapist and licensed counsellor with 4900+ hours of clinical counselling and a master's from Johns Hopkins University in clinical mental health counselling, lived in the US for 11 years. Experienced with clients from diverse cultural backgrounds and focuses on therapy, mentoring, and coaching, she pays extra attention to Asian Americans and international students in practice and research and has expertise in women's and teenagers' mental health and psychological and personal development. Using the humanistic approach, she believes the centrality of human values is our creative and active nature. She loves piano, guitar, staring at horses and meeting people like you!
This club will be a discussion about the wisdom...
This club will be a discussion about the wisdom from the life-changing book "The Courage To Be Disliked". It's totally ok if you haven't read the book (or even heard of it). Lily will be sharing knowledge from this book which she's fallen in love with and we'll have an amazing discussion about it!_x000D_
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Do you ever worry about people disliking you? Do you ever change your behaviour or even hide your opinions or thoughts in order to not be disliked? This is quite common. Have you ever noticed how successful people seem to not care about this? Have you ever noticed how the higher up people move, the higher their chances of being disliked, and the less it affects them?_x000D_
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How would your life be different if you were ok with being disliked by some? Which people do you truly need to like you? Why? And is it worth being liked by them if you're not being your true self?_x000D_
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It takes courage to be ok with being disliked! Let's explore that courage. Let's explore the benefits and disadvantages that come with having it, using it, and even growing through it. Let's have an eye-opening and important discussion about The Courage To Be Disliked!_x000D_
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这个俱乐部将讨论改变人生的一本书——《被讨厌的勇气》,以及书中的智慧。如果你没读过这本书(甚至没听说过)也没关系。Lily将分享她爱上的这本书中的理由,我们将进行一场精彩的讨论!_x000D_
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你担心过别人不喜欢你吗?你是否曾经为了不被讨厌而改变自己的行为,甚至隐藏自己的观点或想法?这是很常见的。你有没有注意到成功人士似乎并不关心这些?你有没有注意到,职位越高,不受欢迎的几率就越高,而这对他们的影响就越小?_x000D_
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如果你能接受别人不喜欢你,你的生活会有什么不同?你真正需要哪些人喜欢你?为什么?如果你不是真实的自己,值得被他们喜欢吗?_x000D_
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接受不受欢迎是需要勇气的!让我们来探索一下这种勇气。让我们来探讨一下拥有它、使用它、甚至通过它体会成长的好处和坏处。让我们就“被讨厌的勇气”展开一场大开眼界的重要讨论吧!