There's a great saying "people won't always remember what you say to them but they will remember how you made them feel". How do you make somebody feel special in a conversation? Is it just about giving compliments? Surely it can't be that simple! But when you do give compliments, how do you in such a way that it doesn't seem fake or like you have an agenda? And what else? How do you make someone feel listened to? Like they're the only person in the room and they have all your attention and your care and, for those moments when they're speaking to you, they are the centre of the universe? And can you imagine what you can achieve if you had this ability?_x000D_ _x000D_ The truth is that most of us talk and say nothing. We hear but don't listen. We go into conversations with anxiety and come out of them with emptiness. If there was someone you knew who always made you feel special, you wouldn't feel that way when you talked to them. What if you could be that person? What if you could be the one to lift those around you? How could you do it?_x000D_ _x000D_ Sasha's got you! In this club, we'll learn, talk about and practice techniques and actionable skills to make the person you're talking to actually feel special. Don't get us wrong, you can't just learn how to do it and then do it, you have to actually mean it. So bring an open mind and an open heart and let's up our conversation game. Let's learn and practice the fine art of charming people by making them feel like everyone else in the room has disappeared and it's just them and you._x000D_ _x000D_ 有句谚语说得好:“人们不会永远记得你对他们说了什么，但他们会记得你给他们的感觉。”如何在谈话中让对方觉得自己很特别？仅仅是赞美吗？事情肯定不会那么简单！但是当你真的赞美别人的时候，你如何让它听起来不假，不像你有什么目的呢？还有什么？你如何让别人感到被倾听?就像他们是房间里唯一的人，他们拥有你所有的注意力和关心，当他们和你说话的时候，他们是宇宙的中心？你能想象如果你有这种能力你能取得什么成就吗？_x000D_ _x000D_ 事实上，我们大多数人只会空谈，什么也不说。我们听见而不倾听。我们带着焦虑进入对话，带着空虚结束对话。如果你认识一个人，他总是让你觉得自己很特别，那么当你和他说话的时候，你就不会有这种感觉了。如果你就是那个人呢？如果你能成为那个振奋你周围人的人呢？你如何能做到这些？_x000D_ _x000D_ Sasha会帮助你！在这个club里，我们将学习、讨论和练习技巧和可操作的技能，让与你交谈的人真正感到特别。不要误解我们的意思，你不能只是学习如何去做，然后去做，你必须真正地去做。所以带着开放的思想和开放的心灵，让我们开始我们的谈话游戏。让我们学习和练习迷人的艺术，让他们觉得房间里的其他人都消失了，只剩下他们和你。