What does the perfect first date look like? Is there such a thing? What elements are necessary to impress someone? To make them feel like you care and like they're special? How do you do all that without going too far and appearing crazy? How much should you spend? How would this differ based on the person and the rapport you've built or haven't built leading up to it? What should be expected from both people?_x000D_ _x000D_ Qixi Festival is coming up and love is in the air so let's talk about that ominous, confusing, intimidating yet potentially beautiful, romantic, and world-building first date! _x000D_ _x000D_ But also, let's be realistic._x000D_ _x000D_ In this club, we'll share ideas and stories. We'll share hopes and fears. We'll share successes and failures. Let's have an open-minded and intelligent discussion about what makes a first date great and what makes one terrible. Let's try to capture that all-important chemistry as we discuss what we could put into the planning of that first date and everything we hope comes with it!_x000D_ _x000D_ 完美的第一次约会应该是什么样的？真的存在这种约会吗？要打动一个人，需要哪些元素？如何让他们感觉到你的关心和他们的特别之处？如何做到这一切而不过分显得疯狂？应该花多少钱？根据你与对方的关系以及建立或未建立的联系，这会有何不同？双方应有哪些期望？_x000D_ _x000D_ 七夕节快到了，空气中弥漫着爱的气息，所以让我们来谈谈那次令人望而生畏、困惑、却又可能美好、浪漫并改变世界的第一次约会！_x000D_ _x000D_ 但我们也要现实一点。_x000D_ _x000D_ 在这个俱乐部中，我们将分享想法和故事。分享希望与恐惧。分享成功与失败。让我们开诚布公地讨论一下什么使第一次约会变得美好，什么使之糟糕。让我们尽量捕捉到那至关重要的化学反应，讨论一下我们可以在策划第一次约会时加入哪些元素以及我们对此的所有期望！