Why does chatting with certain people feel entirely effortless? And why does talking to others feel like pulling teeth? The secret isn’t luck or even connection, it's more scientific than that. It’s understanding how different personality types process information and build rapport.
In this club, we'll break down the science of this in a way that's surprisingly easy to understand. One major will be question will be this: which personality colour are you?
This club, hosted by Chris, a communication coach, just might transform the way you interact with colleagues, friends, and strangers by exploring the Four Personality Colours of Communication (based on the popular framework from the book Surrounded by Idiots). Masterful communicators don’t just stick to their own default style; they learn to be dynamic, adapting their delivery to meet the other person exactly where they are.
为什么和有些人聊天会特别顺,一点不费力?而和另一些人说话却像在“拔牙”?这背后其实不只是运气或者所谓的“合不合拍”,更接近一种可理解的规律:不同人格类型在处理信息、建立关系时的方式是不一样的。
在这个club里,我们会用一种很容易理解的方式,把这套逻辑拆开讲清楚。其中一个核心问题就是:你属于哪一种“性格颜色”?
这个活动由沟通教练 Chris 主持,他会带大家从《Surrounded by Idiots》这本书里常见的“四种性格颜色”框架出发,重新理解我们是怎么和人沟通的。真正厉害的沟通者,不只是用自己习惯的方式说话,而是会根据对方的状态去调整表达,让交流更自然地对上频道。