Attraction is something we don't actually control, or do we? Why are you attracted to some people but your friends aren't? Why does your heart beat quicker when someone exhibits certain qualities? Why doesn't it beat quicker for other qualities? Is it all based on outward appearance? Is it the same for males and females? Is attraction set in our DNA? Or is it related to our upbringing? Are you more likely to be attracted to someone who looks like you? Is from the same culture? Like the same things as you? Can who you're attracted to change over time?_x000D_ _x000D_ Let's look at it from the points of view of psychology and biology. Let's have a fascinating conversation about the true roots of our own human attraction. Have you ever seen somebody who is objectively beautiful and yet feels nothing? How about somebody who is objectively not that good looking and yet you feel everything? How in touch with those feelings are you? Is attraction at first sight even a thing?_x000D_ _x000D_ The truth is human attraction has been studied by experts for quite a long time, not as long as other things, but long enough to have compiled quite a bit of data. Let's look at what that data has to say. Let's compare it to our own experiences. Let's talk, psychologically and biologically about the crazy and wonderful of human attraction!_x000D_ _x000D_ 吸引力是我们无法控制的东西，我们能控制吗？为什么你会被某些人吸引，而你的朋友却不会？为什么当某人表现出某些品质时，你的心跳会加快？为什么你对其他的品质却没有心动的感觉呢？这一切都是基于外表吗？男性和女性是一样的吗？吸引力是与生俱来的吗？还是和我们的成长环境有关？你更容易被长得像你的人吸引吗？还是来自同一文化的人？喜欢和你一样的事物？你喜欢的人会随着时间而改变吗？_x000D_ _x000D_ 让我们从心理学和生物学的角度来看看。让我们来一场关于我们人类吸引力的真正根源的精彩对话。你可曾见过客观上很漂亮却毫无感觉的人？如果有人客观上没那么好看，但你能感觉到来电呢？你有多了解这些感觉？一见钟情真的是存在的吗？_x000D_ _x000D_ 事实上，专家们对人类吸引力的研究已经有很长一段时间了，虽然没有其他研究的时间长，但已经积累了相当多的数据。让我们看看这些数据说明了什么。让我们把它与我们自己的经历进行比较。让我们从心理学和生物学的角度来谈谈人类吸引力的疯狂和美妙!