El, from China, has a Master's of Social Work from the University of Michigan with specialisations in performance studies and positive organizational studies and has spent the last 13 years travelling and exploring aliveness around the world. She has a fellowship from the Institute of International Education, curated art exhibitions in the US, directed theatre productions in London, worked with prisons and refugee organizations, lectured in universities, made an EP, got a plaque at a whiskey bar...and now her adventures continue to unfold in Shanghai. She can’t wait to share her humbly brilliant and unashamedly goofy self and the art of aliveness with you!
What slowly chips away at even the strongest re...
What slowly chips away at even the strongest relationships? Are there patterns, habits, or behaviours we don’t always notice until it’s too late? In this open-minded and judgment-free discussion, we’ll explore the hidden saboteurs that damage relationships—whether romantic, platonic, or professional—and what we can do to recognise and address them before they take root. It’s a chance to reflect on the emotional dynamics that shape our closest connections and learn from each other’s experiences._x000D_
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Whether you’re in a relationship, out of one, or simply curious, we’ll share real stories, smart insights, and practical dos and don’ts for navigating tricky moments. This is not about blaming or fixing anyone, it’s about understanding what tends to go wrong and how we might handle those challenges with more awareness, compassion, and maturity. Come ready to talk, listen, laugh, and maybe even rethink a thing or two._x000D_
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是什么慢慢削弱了即便是最坚固的关系?我们是否有一些模式、习惯或行为,直到为时已晚才意识到它们的存在?在这场开放、无评判的讨论中,我们将探讨破坏关系的隐藏破坏者——无论是浪漫关系、友情还是职场关系——以及如何在它们扎根之前识别并处理这些问题。是一个反思我们最亲密关系中情感动态的机会,并从彼此的经历中学习。_x000D_
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无论你目前处于一段关系中,还是已经结束,或只是好奇,我们都会分享真实的故事、智慧的见解以及处理棘手时刻的实用经验。这里没有指责或修复任何人的问题,而是理解什么可能出错,以及如何以更多的意识、同情和成熟来处理这些挑战。来吧,准备好谈、听、笑,甚至可能重新思考一些事情。