Is the idea of self-love a selfish one? Does the old adage of putting others before ourselves contradict the idea of self-love? Perhaps. You can decide for yourself. But our question for you in this club is do you love yourself? And before you can answer that, we need to define what that means. Is it about loving your body? Your personality? Doing things that benefit you? Taking care of yourself? There's certainly a line between self-love and selfishness, we'll talk about that too!_x000D_ _x000D_ Let's discuss the journey towards understanding yourself and loving that person. What preconceived ideas would stand in the way of that goal? What would achieving that goal allow you to do that you couldn't do before? And, again, is that selfish? _x000D_ _x000D_ And what's it like when you don't love yourself? What does that look like? How does it affect how you treat others and what you expect of yourself? How do issues like body-shaming, relationship challenges, anxiety, and lack of confidence come into play when this is the case?_x000D_ _x000D_ Let's have an open-minded, judgment-free, and enlightening discussion!_x000D_ _x000D_ 自爱的理念是一种自私的行为吗？把他人放在自己之前的古老格言是否与自爱理念相悖？也许吧。你可以自己决定。但在这个俱乐部中，我们要问你是否爱自己？在你回答这个问题之前，我们需要定义这意味着什么。这是关于爱自己的身体吗？性格？做有利于自己的事情？照顾自己？自爱和自私之间肯定有一条界限，我们也会讨论这个问题！_x000D_ _x000D_ 让我们来讨论理解自己并爱上这个人的旅程。哪些成见会妨碍这个目标？实现这一目标会让你做什么以前做不到的事情？而且，这样做是否自私？_x000D_ _x000D_ 当你不爱自己时会怎样？这是什么样的感觉？它如何影响你对待他人以及对自己的期望？在这种情况下，身体羞辱、人际关系挑战、焦虑和缺乏自信等问题如何发挥作用？_x000D_ _x000D_ 让我们进行一次开放、无偏见且富有启发性的讨论吧！