Lily, from China, a psychotherapist and licensed counsellor with 4900+ hours of clinical counselling and a master's from Johns Hopkins University in clinical mental health counselling, lived in the US for 11 years. Experienced with clients from diverse cultural backgrounds and focuses on therapy, mentoring, and coaching, she pays extra attention to Asian Americans and international students in practice and research and has expertise in women's and teenagers' mental health and psychological and personal development. Using the humanistic approach, she believes the centrality of human values is our creative and active nature. She loves piano, guitar, staring at horses and meeting people like you!
Are you familiar with the concept of the five l...
Are you familiar with the concept of the five love languages? It's a simple yet powerful list based in psychology that explains the way different people show love. How do you show love? How does your crush show it? How about your partner? Your friends? Your family? Understanding your own love language and the language of others will open doors to stronger relationships, better communication and quite possibly to love!_x000D_
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Is it possible that there's someone in your life who you think never shows love? Is it also possible you simply don't know their love language? Do you think love languages are influenced by culture and generation or are they biological? What role might trauma play in our love language?_x000D_
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In simple terms, the five love languages are touch, words, gifts, quality time, and acts of kindness. It goes way deeper than that though so let's discuss it with Lily, a practicing psychotherapist who can't wait to talk about it with you!_x000D_
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你熟悉五种爱情语言的概念吗?这是一个基于心理学的简单而有力的清单,解释了不同的人表达爱的方式。你如何表达爱?你喜欢的人是怎么表现出来的?你的伴侣呢?你的朋友吗?你的家人怎么样?了解你自己的爱的语言和别人的语言将打开大门,更牢固的关系,更好的沟通,很可能是爱!_x000D_
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有没有可能在你的生活中有一个人,你认为他从来没有表达过爱?也有可能你只是不懂他们的爱的语言?你认为爱情语言是受文化和时代的影响,还是受生理因素的影响?创伤在我们的爱情语言中扮演什么角色?_x000D_
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简单来说,五种爱的语言是触摸、言语、礼物、优质的时间和善意的行为。但事情远不止于此,所以让我们和Lily讨论一下,她是一位迫不及待想和你谈谈的执业心理师!