What does failure actually mean? And why does just the thought of it stop so many of us before we even begin? Is it really perfectionism that’s holding us back? Or are we disguising a deeper, more uncomfortable fear? Let's have a thoughtful and eye-opening discussion as we explore how the fear of failure, not failure itself, quietly shapes our decisions, limits our potential, and keeps us from taking action in life, love, and work. We'll dig into where this fear comes from, why it's more common in certain upbringings and personality types, and how it often shows up wearing the mask of perfectionism._x000D_ _x000D_ The discussion will be led by Zevan, a multilingual university professor with a rich personal history of learning through failure, from academic setbacks to creative missteps. He’ll guide us through science-based research, psychological case studies, and cultural insights, while encouraging everyone to share their own stories, struggles, and aspirations. Whether you’re someone who hesitates to start things or someone who sets impossibly high standards just to avoid falling short, this is a space to rethink failure, reclaim action, and move forward with clarity and courage._x000D_ _x000D_ 失败究竟意味着什么？为什么单是想到它就会让我们在开始之前就停下来？真的是完美主义在阻碍我们吗？还是我们在掩饰着一种更深层、更不舒服的恐惧？让我们一起进行一场深思熟虑、开阔眼界的讨论，探索“失败的恐惧”是如何悄悄地塑造我们的决策、限制我们的潜力，并让我们在生活、爱情和工作中无法采取行动。我们将深入分析这种恐惧的来源，为什么在某些成长背景和个性类型中更为普遍，以及它如何常常伪装成完美主义的面具。_x000D_ _x000D_ 本次讨论将由Zevan主持，他是一位多语言的大学教授，个人经历丰富，曾在学术挫折和创意失误中不断学习成长。他将通过科学研究、心理学案例分析和文化洞察，带领我们理解这些问题，并鼓励大家分享自己的故事、挣扎和梦想。不论你是一个对开始事情总是犹豫不决的人，还是为了避免失败而设置过高标准的人，这里是重新审视失败、重新行动并带着清晰与勇气前行的空间。