The Psychology Of Fidelity
忠诚心理学
关于主持人
Leon
▼Leon 是来自中国香港的心理学家,在加拿大长大,在英国接受教育。他是美国心理协会(APA)的准会员,也是世界上古老的高智商学会门萨的国际督导心理学家。他还在香港理工大学和香港大学任教,担任心理学和精神健康相关主题的客座讲师。最近,他一直在人道主义领域,为“无国界医生”和“国际社会服务社(ISS)”工作,这是一个致力于帮助难民避免被驱逐的全球社会服务机构。他也是一位音乐人,在世界各地的几个独立乐队中演出,出版了几张专辑和EP,在全球巡演,迫不及待地想见到你!
描述
▼Leon is a practising psychological therapist, a...
Leon is a practising psychological therapist, and in his "Psychology Of" clubs, he breaks down, in simple terms, the psychology behind our most human decision-making systems. Why are humans like this? Is it you? Your trauma? Your upbringing? Your experiences? How do all those affect how you see the world and act in it?
Tonight, let's take a deep look at the psychology of why people cheat on their partners and others stay faithful.
Why do people cheat in relationships? Most of us would agree that being faithful to your partner is considered one of the most important factors in a romantic relationship. And yet, cheating is incredibly common. Why? Is it based on personality types? Relationship strength? Something else? Conversely, why are some people always loyal? Is there a difference in the psychology of fidelity between males and females? From generation to generation?
Let's dive into the psychology of fidelity and the lack thereof! Let's look at sociological statistics, case studies, and even our own experiences. Let's use science to explain why people cheat and see if we can understand it objectively. Let's be honest about our own emotions, needs, and opinions when it comes to the topic. Let's have an intelligent and fascinating discussion!
Leon是一名正在执业的心理治疗师,在他的「Psychology Of」系列活动中,他会用通俗易懂的方式,拆解我们最人性化的决策系统。人为什么会这样?是你个人的问题?是创伤?原生家庭?还是过往经历?这些因素又是如何影响我们看待世界和做出选择的?
这一晚,我们将深入聊聊:为什么有些人会在关系中出轨,而有些人却能始终保持忠诚。为什么出轨在现实中如此常见?是性格类型的问题?关系本身的状态?还是其他因素在起作用?相反,那些始终忠诚的人,他们的心理机制又是什么?男性和女性在忠诚这件事上的心理有没有差异?不同世代之间是否也存在变化?
让我们一起从心理学的角度出发,看看与忠诚(以及不忠)有关的心理逻辑。我们会参考社会学统计数据、案例研究,也会结合我们自己的经历,用科学来理解出轨行为,尝试更客观地看待它。同时,也诚实地面对我们在这个话题中的情绪、需求和观点。这会是一场理性、有深度、也足够真实的讨论。