What happens when the person who knows you best becomes the person you judge most harshly? Where does intimacy end and contempt begin—and what does sexual freedom mean inside a long-term relationship? Join Davie for a Watch & Talk featuring scenes from The Invite, a brilliant and hilarious film that opens up uncomfortable, deeply human questions about love, desire and life together. We’ll explore how relationships change over time, how quickly we form judgments about other couples, and how much those judgments miss about what’s actually happening between them.

Through selected scenes and lively discussion, we’ll examine the distance between being familiar with someone and feeling close to them, the assumptions we make about commitment, and the infamous “bed death”: the fading of sexual intimacy in a relationship. The film approaches this subject with a force and emotional honesty that make it especially powerful to discuss. Expect a conversation that touches our hearts, makes us laugh and gives us plenty to think about. No prior viewing is necessary, and you don’t need to share personal experiences—just bring your curiosity and your perspective on how people keep finding, or losing, each other over time.

Let's sit back in comfy chairs with good friends and watch a new and deeply human film that discusses things we've been afraid to talk about for so long and makes us laugh at the same time. Let's simultaneously have a great conversation and also try to stop taking ourselves so seriously. Let's have an unforgettable evening!

当最懂你的人，变成了你最苛刻地评判的人，会发生什么？亲密到哪儿就结束了，轻视又从哪儿开始？而在一段长期关系里，性自由到底意味着什么？跟着 Davie 来一场电影之夜，看看《激情邀约》里的片段。这是一部又聪明又好笑的电影，把关于爱、欲望和一起生活那些不太舒服、又特别有人味的问题都摊开了。我们会聊聊关系是怎么随着时间变的，我们多快就会对别的伴侣下判断，以及这些判断到底漏掉了他们之间真正在发生的多少东西。

通过精选片段和热闹的讨论，我们会看看“熟悉一个人”和“感觉跟一个人亲近”之间到底差在哪，我们对承诺都有哪些想当然的假设，还有那个有点难听的词——“床上死亡”：一段关系里性亲密的消退。这部电影处理这个题材的时候，有一种力量和情感上的诚实，让它特别值得拿出来聊。这会是一场能碰到心里、能让人笑出来、也能让人想很多的对话。没看过这部片完全没问题，你也不用分享自己的亲身经历——只要带上你的好奇心，还有你对人们怎么在时间里不断找到彼此、或者失去彼此的看法就行。

大家一起窝在舒服的椅子里，跟好朋友一起看一部又新又特别有人味儿的电影，聊聊那些我们很久以来都不敢聊的事，同时还能笑出来。我们一边好好聊，一边也试着别把自己太当回事。来一个忘不掉的晚上吧！