BEGIN:VCALENDAR VERSION:2.0 PRODID:-//PYVOBJECT//NONSGML Version 1//EN BEGIN:VTIMEZONE TZID:Asia/Shanghai BEGIN:STANDARD DTSTART:20000101T000000 RRULE:FREQ=YEARLY;BYMONTH=1 TZNAME:CST TZOFFSETFROM:+0800 TZOFFSETTO:+0800 END:STANDARD END:VTIMEZONE BEGIN:VEVENT UID:20260709T062102Z - 39264@iZuf69e0i0z4ibdboqb33jZ DTSTART;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20210904T110000 DTEND;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20210904T130000 CREATED:20260709T062102Z DESCRIPTION:Conscious Parenting 父母的觉醒：读懂自己， 读懂孩子\nThe truth is children are mirrors that project parents' deepest wounds. This is in-line with the findings of every major study on parenting._x000D_ _x000D_ Parents don’t neglect or hurt their children b ecause they're evil or lack love\, but because they are unconscious of it. We've all inherited legacies of emotional baggage from our own parents. T hat unconscious emotional garbage\, old wounds we often refuse to see\, co me to the surface when children trigger them. Children know how to push bu ttons._x000D_ _x000D_ In order to regain a sense of supremacy\, parents la sh out at children in reactivity. We tell our children “why aren’t you like this?” “why don’t you do that?” “why couldn’t you be mor e like her?”. Sound familiar? _x000D_ _x000D_ What can be done? How can parenting become conscious? What changes when that occurs? Let's look at s cience\, case studies and our own experiences to answer these questions._x 000D_ _x000D_ Parenthood can be an opportunity to grow and to gain a bette r and deeper understanding of ourselves\, but in order to reach that\, a k ey word is needed: CONSCIOUSNESS._x000D_ _x000D_ 每一项以育儿为主 的科学调查都发现，孩子能投射出父母心中最深的创伤 。_x000D_ _x000D_ 父母忽视或伤害孩子，不是因为他们是恶 魔或不爱孩子，而是因为父母们根本没有意识到。_x000D_ 我们从父母那里接过他们的情感包袱，这些无意识的情 感垃圾或者旧伤口经常被我们忽视。但孩子们知道触发 这些伤口的开关，让它们浮出水面。_x000D_ _x000D_ 为了获 得一种优越感，父母通常会对孩子大发雷霆。例如告诉 孩子：“你为什么不能成为这样的小孩？”“你为什么 不那么做？” “你为什么不能像隔壁家小孩一样？”听 起来挺耳熟的对吧？_x000D_ _x000D_ 我们可以做些什么？父 母如何才能意识到这样的行为？意识到之后会发生什么 ？让我们从科学、案例研究以及我们自己经历的角度来 回答这些问题吧。_x000D_ _x000D_ 为人父母其实可以是一个 成长的机会，它让我们更好、更深入地了解自己，但要 实现这一目标，需要一个关键词：意识的觉醒。 DTSTAMP:20260709T062102Z LOCATION:China\,\, Shanghai SUMMARY:Conscious Parenting 父母的觉醒：读懂自己，读懂孩子 END:VEVENT END:VCALENDAR