BEGIN:VCALENDAR VERSION:2.0 PRODID:-//PYVOBJECT//NONSGML Version 1//EN BEGIN:VTIMEZONE TZID:Asia/Shanghai BEGIN:STANDARD DTSTART:20000101T000000 RRULE:FREQ=YEARLY;BYMONTH=1 TZNAME:CST TZOFFSETFROM:+0800 TZOFFSETTO:+0800 END:STANDARD END:VTIMEZONE BEGIN:VEVENT UID:20260709T073511Z - 46251@iZuf69e0i0z4ibdboqb33jZ DTSTART;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20250925T190000 DTEND;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20250925T210000 CREATED:20260709T073511Z DESCRIPTION:Forgiveness: Is it Really Worth L etting Go? 宽恕：真的值得放下吗？\nAre you the type to forg ive quickly when you've been hurt? Or do you hold it inside for a long tim e? Does it depend on who hurt you? Let's have a smart psychological discus sion\, not one that simply encourages everyone to blindly forgive. Let's h onestly\, objectively and scientifically weigh the pros and cons of forgiv eness and the lack thereof. What does it really mean to forgive? And who a ctually benefits more\, the person offering forgiveness or the one receivi ng it? Is forgiveness about freeing ourselves from pain\, or about restori ng balance in a relationship? Studies show that people who practice forgiv eness experience lower levels of anxiety\, depression\, and stress\, and e ven enjoy physical health benefits such as reduced blood pressure. But doe s that mean forgiveness is something we have to give\, even when the other side shows no sincerity? In this discussion\, we’ll explore the psychol ogy and philosophy of forgiveness\, whether it’s toward a bully\, an abs ent parent\, or anyone who has caused lasting harm. Is forgiveness an act of compassion\, a form of reclaiming power\, or simply a way to move on? A nd what about situations where letting go feels impossible or unfair? Toge ther\, we’ll unpack the myths and realities\, share perspectives\, and c onsider what role forgiveness plays in building resilience\, self-awarenes s\, and emotional freedom. 你是那种在受伤后很快就能原谅的 人吗？还是会把心里的不满积压很久？是不是取决于是 谁伤害了你？今晚，我们将进行一场聪明的心理学讨论 ，而不是那种仅仅鼓励大家盲目原谅的谈话。我们将真 诚、客观、科学地权衡宽恕与不宽恕的利与弊。 宽恕到 底意味着什么？真正受益的究竟是给予宽恕的人，还是 接受宽恕的人？宽恕是为了从痛苦中解脱自己，还是为 了恢复关系中的平衡？研究表明，常常实践宽恕的人， 焦虑、抑郁和压力水平较低，甚至在身体健康方面也会 受益，比如血压下降。但这是不是意味着即使对方没有 丝毫诚意，我们也得宽恕？ 在这次讨论中，我们将探索 宽恕的心理学和哲学，不论是对欺负者、缺席的父母， 还是任何给我们造成持久伤害的人。宽恕是出于同情， 是一种重新夺回力量的方式，还是只是为了让自己继续 前行？如果放下感觉不可能或不公平呢？我们一起揭开 宽恕的神话与现实，分享不同的观点，思考宽恕在建立 韧性、自我意识和情感自由中的作用。 DTSTAMP:20260709T073511Z LOCATION:China\,\, Shanghai SUMMARY:Forgiveness: Is it Really Worth Letting Go? 宽恕：真的值得放下吗？ END:VEVENT END:VCALENDAR