BEGIN:VCALENDAR VERSION:2.0 PRODID:-//PYVOBJECT//NONSGML Version 1//EN BEGIN:VTIMEZONE TZID:Asia/Shanghai BEGIN:STANDARD DTSTART:20000101T000000 RRULE:FREQ=YEARLY;BYMONTH=1 TZNAME:CST TZOFFSETFROM:+0800 TZOFFSETTO:+0800 END:STANDARD END:VTIMEZONE BEGIN:VEVENT UID:20260709T064501Z - 82482@iZuf69e0i0z4ibdboqb33jZ DTSTART;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20240121T080000 DTEND;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20240121T100000 CREATED:20260709T064501Z DESCRIPTION:Psychology: How To (And Not To) Re ad People 心理学:如何解读(或不解读)他人\nOne of human’ s natural talents is sensing the motives and feelings of others. But how d o we do it? What signs are we looking for? What parts of ourselves should we listen to? Perhaps a more important first question is: How do we fall i nto mind traps when we assume what we project onto others is actually true ? _x000D_ _x000D_ What's the actual process of the brain when thinking abo ut others’ thoughts and judging their actions?_x000D_ _x000D_ Projecting is a common mind trap and there's a high chance you've done it. We try to understand other people but we often just understand what we would do or think in their position rather than getting out of ourselves to learn how someone else's mind might work. So how can we know if we're really reading another person or simply projecting our own trauma onto them? How does th e brain think clearly and how does it take ineffective shortcuts? To under stand the answers to these questions is to see the key to reading the thou ghts of those around us. Let's understand our minds better and practice ou r superpowers!_x000D_ _x000D_ 感知他人的动机和感受是人类的 天赋之一。但我们该怎么做呢?我们在寻找什么迹象?我们 应该倾听自己的哪一部分?也许更重要的第一个问题是:当 我们假设我们投射给别人的东西实际上是真的时，我们 是如何陷入思维陷阱的?_x000D_ _x000D_ 在思考他人的想法和 判断他人的行为时，大脑的实际过程是什么?_x000D_ _x000D_ 投射是一种常见的思维陷阱，你很有可能已经犯过了。 我们试着去理解别人，但我们常常只是理解我们会在他 们的位置上做什么或想什么，而不是走出自己去了解别 人的想法是如何运作的。那么，我们怎么知道我们是真 的在解读另一个人，还是只是把自己的创伤投射到他们 身上呢?大脑是如何清晰思考的?它又是如何走无效的捷径 的?要理解这些问题的答案，就需要了解解读我们周围人 想法的关键。让我们更好地了解我们的思想，练习我们 的超能力! DTSTAMP:20260709T064501Z LOCATION:China\,\, Shanghai SUMMARY:Psychology: How To (And Not To) Read People 心理学:如何解读(或不解读)他人 END:VEVENT END:VCALENDAR