BEGIN:VCALENDAR VERSION:2.0 PRODID:-//PYVOBJECT//NONSGML Version 1//EN BEGIN:VTIMEZONE TZID:Asia/Shanghai BEGIN:STANDARD DTSTART:20000101T000000 RRULE:FREQ=YEARLY;BYMONTH=1 TZNAME:CST TZOFFSETFROM:+0800 TZOFFSETTO:+0800 END:STANDARD END:VTIMEZONE BEGIN:VEVENT UID:20260709T101220Z - 99919@iZuf69e0i0z4ibdboqb33jZ DTSTART;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20250430T110000 DTEND;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20250430T130000 CREATED:20260709T101220Z DESCRIPTION:Are You Scaring Them Away? Behaviours That Repel 你是不是把人吓跑了？那些让人退避 三舍的行为\nWhy do some conversations leave people feeling draine d or uncomfortable\, even when we have good intentions? Could certain beha viours — like oversharing\, overexplaining\, or trying too hard to conne ct — be unintentionally pushing others away? In this smart\, science-bas ed discussion\, we’ll explore the subtle\, often overlooked ways we migh t be scaring people off without realising it. Using psychology and researc h-backed insights\, we’ll look at how emotional overload\, inauthentic s elf-presentation\, and neediness can affect the way we’re perceived._x00 0D_ _x000D_ We’ll also break down the unspoken cues that shape first imp ressions and discuss how to build more balanced\, healthy connections — whether in friendships\, dating\, or professional life. This is a judgment -free space to reflect\, ask questions\, and share experiences as we learn how small shifts in behaviour can make a big difference in the way we rel ate to others._x000D_ _x000D_ 为什么有些对话让人感觉精疲力 尽，甚至不舒服？即使我们的出发点是善意的，某些行 为，比如分享过多、解释太多、或者过度用力地想建立 连接，会不会反而让别人不自在？这场讨论结合心理学 研究和科学视角，带你深入了解那些被我们忽视、却悄 悄把人“吓跑”的小细节。情绪输出过量、不够真实的 自我表现、以及隐约流露的“需求感”……这些看似无 伤大雅的行为，其实可能在影响别人对我们的看法。_x000 D_ _x000D_ 我们还会聊聊塑造第一印象的一些“潜规则”， 以及如何在友情、恋爱甚至职场中，建立更稳固、健康 的关系。这不是一场指责大会，而是一个安全舒适的空 间，让大家自由提问、分享经历、反思自己的互动方式 。有时候，关系的改变，就从一点点微小的行为调整开 始。 DTSTAMP:20260709T101220Z LOCATION:China\,\, Shanghai SUMMARY:Are You Scaring Them Away? Behaviours That Repel 你是不是把 人吓跑了？那些让人退避三舍的行为 END:VEVENT END:VCALENDAR