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DESCRIPTION:<a href="http://popcornclubshanghai.com/event/kindness-vs-peopl
 e-pleasing-where-s-the-line-44389/register">Kindness Vs People-Pleasing: W
 here's The Line?  善良与讨好他人：界限在哪里？</a>\nWhat’s
  the difference between being kind and being a people-pleaser? When does c
 ompassion cross the line into self-neglect or inauthenticity? In this thou
 ghtful and timely discussion\, we’ll explore how the urge to be liked or
  keep the peace can sometimes mask deeper issues\, like fear of rejection\
 , boundary challenges\, or lack of self-worth. Are we being truly kind\, o
 r are we being “nice” in ways that compromise who we really are?_x000D
 _ _x000D_ Hosted by El\, a social worker with deep insight into emotional 
 patterns and relational health\, this conversation will blend psychology w
 ith real-life examples to help us better understand our own behaviour and 
 how we relate to others. We’ll explore how to show genuine kindness with
 out sacrificing honesty or integrity\, and why understanding this balance 
 is essential for both mental well-being and strong\, authentic relationshi
 ps. Whether you identify as a chronic people-pleaser or are simply curious
 \, you’ll walk away with new clarity and tools for navigating your inner
  and outer world._x000D_ _x000D_ 善良和讨好他人有什么区别？
 同情心何时会越过界限，变成自我忽视或不真诚？在这
 场富有深度且及时的讨论中，我们将探讨，渴望被喜欢
 或维持和谐的愿望有时可能掩盖了更深层次的问题，比
 如害怕被拒绝、设立边界的困难或缺乏自我价值感。我
 们是在真正展现善良，还是在“做一个好人”的过程中
 牺牲了真正的自我？_x000D_ _x000D_ 本次讨论由El主持，El是
 一位对情感模式和人际关系健康有深入了解的社会工作
 者。这次对话将结合心理学和现实生活的例子，帮助我
 们更好地理解自己的行为以及我们与他人的关系。我们
 将探讨如何在不牺牲诚实与正直的情况下，展现真正的
 善良，以及为什么理解这种平衡对于心理健康和建立强
 大、真实的人际关系至关重要。无论你是否觉得自己是
 一个习惯性讨好他人的人，或者只是出于好奇，参与后
 你都将获得新的清晰度和应对内外部世界的工具。
DTSTAMP:20260709T090314Z
LOCATION:China\,\, Shanghai
SUMMARY:Kindness Vs People-Pleasing: Where's The Line?  善良与讨好他人：界限在哪里？
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