BEGIN:VCALENDAR VERSION:2.0 PRODID:-//PYVOBJECT//NONSGML Version 1//EN BEGIN:VTIMEZONE TZID:Asia/Shanghai BEGIN:STANDARD DTSTART:20000101T000000 RRULE:FREQ=YEARLY;BYMONTH=1 TZNAME:CST TZOFFSETFROM:+0800 TZOFFSETTO:+0800 END:STANDARD END:VTIMEZONE BEGIN:VEVENT UID:20260709T113727Z - 99411@iZuf69e0i0z4ibdboqb33jZ DTSTART;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20250710T110000 DTEND;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20250710T130000 CREATED:20260709T113727Z DESCRIPTION:Modern Dating Red Flags: To o Picky Or Just Aware? 现代约会中的红旗：过于挑剔还是更 加警觉？\nWhat do we really mean when we talk about red flags in m odern dating? Are we becoming too critical? Or finally learning to protect ourselves better? In this thoughtful discussion\, we’ll explore how dat ing culture has evolved\, whether fear of commitment plays a role\, and ho w social media and therapy-speak have shaped our views on what’s accepta ble and what’s not. Do these red flags reflect healthy boundaries\, or a re they sometimes excuses that keep us from connection?_x000D_ _x000D_ We' ll also ask deeper questions about personal expectations: do we truly know what we want in a partner\, or are we reacting to trends and pressure? Ho w do cultural norms\, both our own and those of others\, shape our dating behaviour\, and what happens when those expectations clash? Join us for a smart and meaningful conversation about love\, communication\, and the hum an desire for connection in a fast-changing world._x000D_ _x000D_ 当我 们谈论现代约会中的红旗时，究竟意味着什么？我们是 否变得过于挑剔，还是终于学会了更好地保护自己？在 这场深思熟虑的讨论中，我们将探讨约会文化如何演变 ，承诺恐惧是否在其中起了作用，以及社交媒体和心理 学语言如何塑造我们对什么是可接受、什么是不可接受 的看法。这些红旗是否反映了健康的界限，还是有时成 为了阻止我们建立联系的借口？_x000D_ _x000D_ 我们还将探 讨更深层次的问题：我们是否真正知道自己在伴侣身上 想要什么，还是只是对潮流和压力做出了反应？文化规 范——无论是我们自己的，还是他人的——如何塑造我 们的约会行为，当这些期望发生冲突时会发生什么？欢 迎加入我们，进行一次关于爱、沟通以及在快速变化的 世界中人类对联系的渴望的智慧且有意义的对话。 DTSTAMP:20260709T113727Z LOCATION:China\,\, Shanghai SUMMARY:Modern Dating Red Flags: Too Picky Or Just Aware? 现代约会中 的红旗：过于挑剔还是更加警觉？ END:VEVENT END:VCALENDAR