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DESCRIPTION:<a href="http://popcornclubshanghai.com/event/psychology-of-sel
 f-pity-dealing-with-victim-mentalities-44684/register">Psychology Of Self-
 Pity: Dealing With Victim Mentalities  自怜心理：如何面对受害
 者心态</a>\nWhy do so many people today see themselves as victims\, eve
 n when the reality may be more complicated? At what point does healthy rec
 ognition of harm turn into self-pity\, self-sabotage\, and the belief that
  the world is against us? How can you identify is you or someone around yo
 u is falsely seeing themself as a victim and what can you do about it?_x00
 0D_ _x000D_ This mindset can be highly destructive\, not only because it p
 revents growth\, but also because it can slide into egocentrism or even na
 rcissism. Understanding why this is on the rise\, and how to recognize it 
 in ourselves and others\, is a critical psychological challenge of our tim
 e._x000D_ _x000D_ Let's join David\, a chief psychological counsellor\, fo
 r a thought-provoking discussion on the concept and practice of victimisat
 ion. We’ll explore the difference between truly being a victim and adopt
 ing a victim mentality\, the psychological roots behind these patterns\, a
 nd the ways they impact behavior\, relationships\, and personal developmen
 t. We’ll also look at practical strategies for dealing with people who f
 all into this mindset. This is a chance to sharpen your self-awareness\, b
 etter understand human psychology today\, and learn how to approach one of
  the most pressing personal and social issues of our time._x000D_ _x000D_ 
 为什么现在这么多人喜欢把自己当成“受害者”？什么
 情况下，合理的受伤感知会变成自怜、自我设限，甚至
 觉得全世界都在针对自己？你要怎么判断，自己或身边
 人是不是陷入了错误的受害者心态？又该如何应对？_x000
 D_ _x000D_ 这种思维模式的破坏性很大，不仅阻碍成长，还
 容易演变成自我中心甚至自恋。理解为什么这种现象在
 当下越来越普遍，以及怎么识别它、处理它，已经成了
 我们这个时代重要的心理课题。_x000D_ _x000D_ 跟着David，
 一起深度探讨受害者心态的心理根源和现实表现。我们
 会拆解真正的“受害者”和“受害者心态”的差别，聊
 它对行为、人际关系和个人发展的影响，还会分享一些
 实用的应对策略。这是一次提升自我认知、理解当代心
 理趋势的机会，也是去学习如何应对当下最棘手的社会
 与个人问题之一。
DTSTAMP:20260709T075553Z
LOCATION:China\,\, Shanghai
SUMMARY:Psychology Of Self-Pity: Dealing With Victim Mentalities  自怜心
 理：如何面对受害者心态
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