BEGIN:VCALENDAR VERSION:2.0 PRODID:-//PYVOBJECT//NONSGML Version 1//EN BEGIN:VTIMEZONE TZID:Asia/Shanghai BEGIN:STANDARD DTSTART:20000101T000000 RRULE:FREQ=YEARLY;BYMONTH=1 TZNAME:CST TZOFFSETFROM:+0800 TZOFFSETTO:+0800 END:STANDARD END:VTIMEZONE BEGIN:VEVENT UID:20260709T081700Z - 11388@iZuf69e0i0z4ibdboqb33jZ DTSTART;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20260113T190000 DTEND;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20260113T210000 CREATED:20260709T081700Z DESCRIPTION:Shanghai V Sto ckholm: 5 Surprising Social Culture Differences\nWhy does social life feel effortless in one city and strangely hard in another? Even when the p eople are kind? Why can two places feel completely different\, yet occasio nally familiar in unexpected ways? In this discussion and workshop\, we’ ll explore five social and cultural differences between Shanghai and Stock holm\, hosted by Alex\, a European job placement specialist who has lived in both cities as a foreigner and loves them deeply. Drawing from real lif e\, real data\, and lived contradictions\, Alex will unpack why social lif e in Stockholm often feels calm\, planned\, and deep\, while Shanghai can feel spontaneous\, intense\, and surprisingly warm\, and why neither exper ience is as simple as it first appears. Together\, we’ll look at: How fr iendships startHow quickly or slowly relationships grow and whyHow people are included (or not included)Social energy and spontaneity Loneliness and how it shows up This isn’t about which culture is better or worse\, and it’s definitely not a guidebook comparison or what you'll get from onli ne noise. It’s about understanding why social life feels the way it does where you live\, and how to navigate it with more awareness\, realism\, a nd self-compassion. You’ll leave with insights you won’t find online\, and a clearer\, more worldly lens on your own social experiences abroad\, plus practical ways to build connections without forcing yourself to beco me someone you’re not. 为什么在一个城市，社交好像不费力 ，而在另一个地方却莫名其妙地难？哪怕那里的人大多 都很友好？为什么两个地方明明完全不同，却偶尔又会 在某些瞬间让你感到熟悉？在这场讨论+工作坊中，我们 会一起看看上海和斯德哥尔摩之间五个关键的社交与文 化差异。活动由Alex主持，他是一名欧洲岗位安置专家， 作为外国人分别在这两座城市生活过，也真心喜欢它们 。结合真实生活、真实数据，还有那些自相矛盾却很真 实的体验，Alex会拆解：为什么斯德哥尔摩的社交常常显 得平静、有计划、偏深度，而上海则更即兴、更密集， 也意外地温暖，以及为什么这些感受都没那么简单。 我 们会一起聊到： —— 友谊是怎么开始的 —— 关系为什 么会发展得快或慢 —— 人是如何被“纳入”或被排除在 外的 —— 社交能量和即兴感 —— 孤独，以及它通常以 什么形式出现 [...] DTSTAMP:20260709T081700Z LOCATION:China\,\, Shanghai SUMMARY:Shanghai V Stockholm: 5 Surprising Social Culture Differences END:VEVENT END:VCALENDAR