BEGIN:VCALENDAR VERSION:2.0 PRODID:-//PYVOBJECT//NONSGML Version 1//EN BEGIN:VTIMEZONE TZID:Asia/Shanghai BEGIN:STANDARD DTSTART:20000101T000000 RRULE:FREQ=YEARLY;BYMONTH=1 TZNAME:CST TZOFFSETFROM:+0800 TZOFFSETTO:+0800 END:STANDARD END:VTIMEZONE BEGIN:VEVENT UID:20260709T080447Z - 33137@iZuf69e0i0z4ibdboqb33jZ DTSTART;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20260412T190000 DTEND;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20260412T210000 CREATED:20260709T080447Z DESCRIPTION:Emotional Abuse: What it is\, isn't & how it affects us \nWhat does emotional abuse actually l ook like? And how often does it go unnoticed\, even by the people experien cing it? When does care become control\, help become criticism\, or silenc e become punishment? In this discussion\, David Ammerschlaeger\, chief psy chological counsellor\, will guide us through a clear and grounded underst anding of emotional abuse\; what it is\, what it isn’t\, and why it can be so difficult to recognise in real time. Drawing from years of clinical experience working with both victims and perpetrators\, he’ll unpack the subtle patterns\, language\, and dynamics that often hide in plain sight across families\, workplaces\, romantic\, and social relationships. We’l l explore how emotional abuse is carried out\, how it shapes a person’s sense of self\, and why many people only recognise it long after the damag e has been done. How does it differ between men and women\, both in how it ’s experienced and expressed? Why do some people stay\, justify\, or eve n repeat these patterns? This will be a thoughtful\, serious\, and non-jud gmental space\, whether you’re here to understand your own experiences\, support someone else\, or simply become more aware of the psychological d ynamics that shape so many relationships. 情感虐待到底是什么样 的？为什么很多时候，它甚至连经历的人自己都没有意 识到？从什么时候开始，关心变成了控制，帮助变成了 指责，沉默变成了一种惩罚？在这场讨论中，首席心理 咨询师 David Ammerschlaeger 会带大家更清晰地理解情感虐待 ：它的定义是什么、不是什么，以及为什么在真实情境 中往往很难第一时间识别出来。结合多年与当事人和施 加方的实际工作经验，他会拆解那些在家庭、职场、亲 密关系和社交关系中经常出现、却很容易被忽略的细微 模式、语言方式和互动关系。 大家会一起看看情感虐待 是如何发生的，它又是如何一点点影响一个人的自我认 知，以及为什么很多人往往是在事后才意识到问题的存 在。它在不同性别之间的表现和体验有没有差异？为什 么有些人会选择留下、为这种关系找理由，甚至在之后 重复类似的模式？这会是一场相对严肃但也很克制、不 会带评判的讨论。不管你是想理解自己的经历、支持身 边的人，还是单纯想更清楚地认识这些在很多关系中都 会出现的心理机制，这里都会是一个可以慢慢思考和交 流的空间。 DTSTAMP:20260709T080447Z LOCATION:China\,\, Shanghai SUMMARY:Emotional Abuse: What it is\, isn't & how it affects us END:VEVENT END:VCALENDAR