BEGIN:VCALENDAR VERSION:2.0 PRODID:-//PYVOBJECT//NONSGML Version 1//EN BEGIN:VTIMEZONE TZID:Asia/Shanghai BEGIN:STANDARD DTSTART:20000101T000000 RRULE:FREQ=YEARLY;BYMONTH=1 TZNAME:CST TZOFFSETFROM:+0800 TZOFFSETTO:+0800 END:STANDARD END:VTIMEZONE BEGIN:VEVENT UID:20260709T093114Z - 45701@iZuf69e0i0z4ibdboqb33jZ DTSTART;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20260408T190000 DTEND;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20260408T210000 CREATED:20260709T093114Z DESCRIPTION:Stories You're Told To Be lieve & How They Shape You \nWhy do you believe what you believe about yourself… and how much of it was never really yours to begin with? Who decided what “success” looks like for you? What it means to be “norm al”? “Responsible”? “Too much”? “Not enough”? And how often are you still following scripts that were handed to you long ago? Last mon th\, Leslie guided a powerful session on the stories we tell ourselves. Th is time\, we’re going one layer deeper. In this new edition\, we’ll ex plore the stories we’ve been told to believe by parents\, teachers\, cul ture\, media\, and the environments we grew up in\, and how they’ve shap ed the way we see ourselves and move through the world. Some of these narr atives helped us. Others may have limited us without us even noticing. Tog ether\, we’ll unpack where these ideas come from\, how they stick\, and whether they still deserve a place in our lives. This isn’t about reject ing everything or “reinventing yourself.” It’s about seeing clearly. About recognising which beliefs are truly yours\, and which ones were inh erited\, absorbed\, or quietly imposed. Expect a thoughtful\, honest\, and eye-opening discussion that might shift how you understand your own ident ity. Whether you joined Leslie last month or not\, you’re absolutely wel come. This one stands on its own\, and might just change the way you liste n to the voice in your head. 你对自己的很多看法，真的都是你 自己形成的吗？还是有一部分，其实从一开始就不是你 的？是谁决定了“成功”在你眼里应该是什么样？什么 叫“正常”？什么叫“负责任”？什么叫“太过了”或 “还不够”？而你现在的很多选择，有多少其实是在按 照很早以前被灌输的“剧本”在走？ 上个月，Leslie 带大 家聊了“我们讲给自己的故事”。这一次，我们会再往 深一层走，去看看那些我们“被教会相信”的故事：来 自父母、老师、文化、媒体，以及成长环境。这些叙事 是如何一点点影响我们看待自己、理解世界，并做出选 择的。有些帮助了我们成长，但也有一些，可能在我们 没有意识到的时候限制了我们。 这场讨论不是要否定一 切、也不是让你“重新塑造自己”，而是去看清楚。去 分辨哪些想法是真正属于你的，哪些是继承来的、潜移 默化吸收的，或者在不知不觉中被加到你身上的。这会 是一场比较真诚、有思考空间、也可能带来一些“突然 明白”的讨论，也许会让你重新听见自己内心的声音。 不管你上个月有没有参加过 Leslie 的活动，这一场都可以 单独参加，而且可能会带来不一样的收获。 DTSTAMP:20260709T093114Z LOCATION:China\,\, Shanghai SUMMARY:Stories You're Told To Believe & How They Shape You END:VEVENT END:VCALENDAR