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DESCRIPTION:<a href="http://popcornclubshanghai.com/event/social-psychology
 -shame-vs-guilt-societies-45405/register">Social Psychology: Shame Vs Guil
 t Societies </a>\nWhat shapes the voice in your head when you make a mista
 ke? Does it say “I did something wrong” or “something is wrong with 
 me”? And why do these inner reactions feel so different across cultures?
  In this guided discussion\, we’ll explore the psychology of shame and g
 uilt through both Eastern and Western lenses. We'll unpack the powerful di
 stinction between guilt (“I did something bad”) and shame (“I am bad
 ”)\, and how each one shapes behaviour\, communication\, and self-worth.
  Why do some people withdraw\, go silent\, or shrink after failure\, while
  others speak\, repair\, and move forward? What invisible rules are we fol
 lowing without even realising it? We’ll go deeper into how shame functio
 ns as a social regulator\, keeping individuals aligned with group expectat
 ions\, and how that influence extends into identity formation\, intimacy\,
  and the way we relate to others. How does growing up in a more shame-orie
 nted environment affect confidence\, emotional expression\, or conflict in
  relationships? And what happens when people move between cultures with di
 fferent emotional “operating systems”? This will be a thoughtful and e
 ye-opening conversation for anyone curious about the hidden forces shaping
  how we see ourselves\, and how we connect with others. 当你犯错时，
 内心的声音是什么样的？是“我做错了一件事”，还是
 “我这个人有问题”？为什么这种内在反应在不同文化
 中会有明显差异？在这场引导式讨论中，我们会从东西
 方的视角出发，去理解“羞耻”和“内疚”这两种情绪
 在心理上的不同机制。我们会拆解一个关键区别：内疚
 更像是“我做错了”，而羞耻则是“我不好”，以及它
 们是如何分别影响人的行为、沟通方式和自我认知的。 
 为什么有些人在失败后会沉默、退缩甚至自我否定，而
 有些人则更倾向于表达、修复并继续前进？我们是否在
 不知不觉中，遵循着一些看不见的社会规则？ 我们也会
 进一步探讨，羞耻是如何作为一种“社会调节机制”存
 在的——它如何让个体更符合群体期待，以及这种影响
 如何延伸到身份认同、亲密关系和人与人之间的互动。
 当一个人在更偏“羞耻导向”的环境中成长，会如何影
 响他的自信、情绪表达和冲突处理？而当人跨文化生活
 ，在不同“情绪系统”之间切换时，又会发生什么？ 这
 会是一场很有洞察力、也可能让人重新理解自己的讨论
 ，帮助你更清楚地看到那些在潜意识中影响我们如何看
 待自己、以及如何与他人连接的心理力量。
DTSTAMP:20260709T075601Z
LOCATION:China\,\, Shanghai
SUMMARY:Social Psychology: Shame Vs Guilt Societies 
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