BEGIN:VCALENDAR VERSION:2.0 PRODID:-//PYVOBJECT//NONSGML Version 1//EN BEGIN:VTIMEZONE TZID:Asia/Shanghai BEGIN:STANDARD DTSTART:20000101T000000 RRULE:FREQ=YEARLY;BYMONTH=1 TZNAME:CST TZOFFSETFROM:+0800 TZOFFSETTO:+0800 END:STANDARD END:VTIMEZONE BEGIN:VEVENT UID:20260809T181124Z - 38311@iZuf69e0i0z4ibdboqb33jZ DTSTART;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20260816T160000 DTEND;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20260816T180000 CREATED:20260809T181124Z DESCRIPTION:Attachment Styles In Romantic R elationships\nWhy do some people want to get closer when a relationshi p feels uncertain\, while others instinctively pull away? Why can one pers on need reassurance while their partner needs space? And why can both walk away convinced the other person is the problem? In this lively discussion hosted by Chris\, whose clubs are always packed with laughter and interac tion\, we'll explore the four commonly discussed attachment styles: secure \, anxious\, avoidant and fearful-avoidant\, and what they can help us und erstand about the ways we connect\, communicate and respond to uncertainty in romantic relationships. More importantly\, we'll use these ideas as a starting point for people to share\, compare experiences and learn from ea ch other. What happens when two very different attachment styles fall in l ove? Can the same person behave differently in different relationships? Wh ich behaviours make us feel safe and connected\, and which immediately mak e us want to chase\, retreat or put our guard up? Expect stories\, surpris ing differences of opinion\, plenty of opportunities to join in\, and prob ably a few moments of recognising yourself\, or someone you've dated. Come ready to talk about how we love\, what we need from each other\, and why relationships can bring out such different sides of us. 为什么当关系 变得不确定时，有些人渴望靠近，而另一些人却本能地 退缩？为什么一方需要安抚，而伴侣却需要空间？又为 何双方都坚信对方才是问题所在？在这场由Chris主持的生 动讨论中（他的活动总是充满欢笑与互动），我们将探 索四种常见的依恋类型：安全型、焦虑型、回避型和恐 惧-回避型，以及它们如何帮助我们理解自己在亲密关系 中的联结、沟通及应对不确定性的方式。 更重要的是， 我们将把这些理论作为起点，鼓励大家分享经历、比较 差异并相互学习。当两种截然不同的依恋类型相爱时会 发生什么？同一个人在不同的关系中是否会有不同的表 现？哪些行为让我们感到安全和被联结，哪些又让我们 立刻想要追逐、逃避或竖起心防？期待听到真实的故事 、意想不到的观点碰撞、充分的参与机会，以及那些让 你恍然大悟“这不就是我（或我前任）吗”的瞬间。请 准备好畅谈我们如何去爱、彼此需要什么，以及为何亲 密关系总能激发出我们如此不同的一面。 DTSTAMP:20260809T181124Z LOCATION:China\,\, Shanghai SUMMARY:Attachment Styles In Romantic Relationships END:VEVENT END:VCALENDAR