BEGIN:VCALENDAR VERSION:2.0 PRODID:-//PYVOBJECT//NONSGML Version 1//EN BEGIN:VTIMEZONE TZID:Asia/Shanghai BEGIN:STANDARD DTSTART:20000101T000000 RRULE:FREQ=YEARLY;BYMONTH=1 TZNAME:CST TZOFFSETFROM:+0800 TZOFFSETTO:+0800 END:STANDARD END:VTIMEZONE BEGIN:VEVENT UID:20260819T035348Z - 88009@iZuf69e0i0z4ibdboqb33jZ DTSTART;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20260825T190000 DTEND;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20260825T210000 CREATED:20260819T035348Z DESCRIPTION:Watch & Talk: Hitch - Dating Coach Or PUA: Where's The Line?\nWhen does helping someone bec ome more confident at dating cross the line into teaching them how to mani pulate people? Is a “Pick Up Artist” simply someone who has learned ho w attraction works\, as the term originally suggested\, or the calculating \, manipulative figure that PUA has come to mean in China? Hosted by Leon\ , a psychologist and cinephile\, this Watch & Talk will use scenes from Hi tch to explore the strange world of dating strategies: how we approach som eone we like\, the techniques we consciously or unconsciously use\, and wh ere we draw the line between creating connection\, protecting ourselves fr om rejection and deliberately controlling someone else’s emotions. Hitch is an incredibly fun\, warm and positive movie\, but underneath the comed y is a surprising amount of depth that’s easy to miss. As we watch key s cenes together\, we’ll look beyond Will Smith’s smooth advice and ask what actually makes his methods work\, when they fail\, and whether any of us are really as “natural” about dating as we like to think. Do we ch ange how we speak\, dress and behave to make ourselves more attractive? Is that manipulation\, or simply part of being social? Expect plenty of laug hs\, uncomfortable recognition and smart discussion about attraction\, aut henticity and the complicated games people play when what they really want might simply be connection. 帮别人在约会中变得更自信，和教 别人怎么操控人心，这两条线到底在哪？“PUA”这个说 法，到底是像它最初那样指“学会了吸引力是怎么回事 的人”，还是在中国语境下已经变成了心机深沉、善于 操控的代名词？这场由心理学家兼影迷Leon主持的“观影 聊片”，会借助《全民情敌》里的片段，带我们走进约 会策略这个奇妙的世界：我们怎么接近喜欢的人、我们 会下意识或刻意地使用哪些技巧，以及我们怎么区分“ 建立联结”“保护自己不被拒绝”和“刻意控制他人情 绪”这三者之间的界线。 《全民情敌》是一部特别有趣 、温暖又积极的电影，但喜剧表面之下藏着不少容易被 忽略的深度。我们一起看几个关键片段的时候，会跳出Wi ll Smith那些丝滑的建议，去追问：他的方法为什么管用、 什么时候会翻车，以及我们是不是真的像自己以为的那 样“自然而然”地对待约会。我们会为了让自己更有吸 引力而改变说话方式、穿着和行为吗？这算是操控，还 是只是社交的一部分？现场会有很多笑声、一些让人“ 被戳中”的瞬间，还有关于吸引力、真实性和那些复杂 游戏的聪明讨论——说到底，人们真正想要的可能只是 联结而已。 DTSTAMP:20260819T035348Z LOCATION:China\,\, Shanghai SUMMARY:Watch & Talk: Hitch - Dating Coach Or PUA: Where's The Line? END:VEVENT END:VCALENDAR