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DESCRIPTION:<a href="http://popcornclubshanghai.com/event/the-hedgehog-dile
 mma-how-close-should-we-get-to-other-humans-45887/register">The Hedgehog D
 ilemma: How Close Should We Get To Other Humans?</a>\nHow close can we get
  to another person without eventually hurting each other? The Hedgehog Dil
 emma\, a famous metaphor from philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer\, imagines h
 edgehogs trying to survive a freezing winter: move too far apart\, and the
 y suffer from the cold\; move too close\, and they prick each other with t
 heir spines. Human relationships can feel surprisingly similar. We want in
 timacy\, friendship\, love and the feeling of being truly known. But close
 ness also makes us vulnerable to rejection\, disappointment\, conflict and
  loss. Join Chris\, an IELTS and communication coach whose clubs are alway
 s full of laughter and interaction\, for a discussion about the strange ba
 lancing act between our need for connection and our instinct to protect ou
 rselves. And what exactly are our “spines”? Insecurity? Selfishness? P
 ast experiences? Different needs? The annoying habits that only appear onc
 e you really know somebody? We'll take this wonderfully simple metaphor in
 to romantic relationships\, friendships\, family\, loneliness\, boundaries
  and modern dating\, asking how much independence healthy relationships ac
 tually need and whether being hurt occasionally is simply part of genuinel
 y knowing another person. Are some of us standing too far away because we'
 re afraid of being pricked? Are others constantly getting too close? And h
 ow much discomfort is worth accepting for warmth? There are no correct ans
 wers and no relationship expertise required\, just bring your experiences\
 , ideas and curiosity. Expect plenty of laughs\, different perspectives an
 d a deceptively simple question that may become surprisingly deep once we 
 start talking about it. 我们能跟另一个人靠多近，才不至于
 最终互相伤害？刺猬困境——哲学家叔本华的一个著名
 隐喻——想象一群刺猬为了熬过寒冬：离得太远，会被
 冻死；靠得太近，又会被彼此的刺扎到。人类关系有时
 候真的跟这个特别像。我们渴望亲密、友谊、爱情，渴
 望被真正了解的感觉。但靠近也意味着更容易被拒绝、
 失望、冲突和失去。加入Chris——雅思和沟通教练，他的
 俱乐部永远不缺笑声和互动——一起来聊聊那个在“渴
 望连接”和“本能保护自己”之间的奇怪平衡吧。 [...]
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LOCATION:China\,\, Shanghai
SUMMARY:The Hedgehog Dilemma: How Close Should We Get To Other Humans?
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