BEGIN:VCALENDAR VERSION:2.0 PRODID:-//PYVOBJECT//NONSGML Version 1//EN BEGIN:VTIMEZONE TZID:Asia/Shanghai BEGIN:STANDARD DTSTART:20000101T000000 RRULE:FREQ=YEARLY;BYMONTH=1 TZNAME:CST TZOFFSETFROM:+0800 TZOFFSETTO:+0800 END:STANDARD END:VTIMEZONE BEGIN:VEVENT UID:20260829T165400Z - 71870@iZuf69e0i0z4ibdboqb33jZ DTSTART;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20260905T130000 DTEND;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20260905T150000 CREATED:20260829T165359Z DESCRIPTION:Nice Guys F inish Last: How To Stop Being Nice Without Being Rude\nDo nice guys re ally finish last? Or have we confused being nice with being passive? We’ re often taught to be agreeable\, avoid conflict and make other people com fortable\, yet some of the most successful people seem remarkably comforta ble saying no\, disappointing others and putting their own priorities firs t. Does getting ahead require becoming colder and less emotional? Or is th ere a way to be kind without becoming a pushover? In this discussion and w orkshop\, we’ll examine the difference between kindness\, people-pleasin g and assertiveness\, and ask whether being “too nice” can sometimes h old us back in our careers\, relationships and everyday lives. We’ll als o make it practical. What should you accept from other people? And what sh ouldn’t you? How do you set a boundary without sounding aggressive? How do you disagree\, refuse a request or stand up for yourself while still tr eating the other person with respect? Through discussion\, real-life situa tions and communication practice\, we’ll experiment with ways to be more direct and confident without swinging from one extreme to the other. You don’t need to become ruthless to make something of your life\, but perha ps you do need to become more comfortable with the fact that being a good person and keeping everyone happy are not the same thing. Expect plenty of opinions\, relatable situations\, useful language and a chance to practis e finding that sweet spot between too nice and unnecessarily rude. “老 好人”真的会吃亏吗？还是我们把“好说话”和“被动 ”搞混了？我们从小被教育要和气、避免冲突、让别人 舒服，但你会发现，那些混得最好的人反而特别擅长说 “不”、让人失望，以及把自己的优先级放前面。想往 上走就一定要变冷漠、变无情吗？还是说，其实有办法 既能保持善良，又不会被人当软柿子捏？在这场讨论与 工作坊中，我们会拆解善良、讨好型人格和坚定自信之 间的区别，并追问“太好说话”会不会在某些时候拖累 我们的职业、关系和日常生活。 [...] DTSTAMP:20260829T165400Z LOCATION:China\,\, Shanghai SUMMARY:Nice Guys Finish Last: How To Stop Being Nice Without Being Rude END:VEVENT END:VCALENDAR