BEGIN:VCALENDAR VERSION:2.0 PRODID:-//PYVOBJECT//NONSGML Version 1//EN BEGIN:VTIMEZONE TZID:Asia/Shanghai BEGIN:STANDARD DTSTART:20000101T000000 RRULE:FREQ=YEARLY;BYMONTH=1 TZNAME:CST TZOFFSETFROM:+0800 TZOFFSETTO:+0800 END:STANDARD END:VTIMEZONE BEGIN:VEVENT UID:20260912T155822Z - 26167@iZuf69e0i0z4ibdboqb33jZ DTSTART;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20260919T130000 DTEND;TZID=Asia/Shanghai:20260919T150000 CREATED:20260912T155822Z DESCRIPTION:Watch & Talk: Fleabag - How Do We Hide From Emotional Pain?\nFleabag is incredible\, mature yet immature\, brilliant and funny. You'll laugh. You might cry. You'll d efinitely have a deep discussion. What do you do when something hurts too much to face directly? Make a joke? Stay busy? Intellectualise it? Have se x\, pick a fight\, scroll your phone... or convince yourself you’re comp letely fine? And does being intelligent actually make this easier? The sma rter we are\, the more sophisticated our ways of avoiding emotional pain c an become: we can explain it\, analyse it\, laugh at it and build an extre mely convincing argument for why we don’t need to feel it at all. But is that necessarily unhealthy? Sometimes hiding from pain helps us survive. The more interesting question may be when does protection become avoidance —and how can we tell the difference? Join Daria\, a psychological counse llor and Gestalt therapist\, to watch selected scenes from an episode of F leabag and explore what they reveal about the wonderfully complicated ways human beings protect themselves. Fleabag is hilarious\, painfully intelli gent and genuinely groundbreaking television\, able to make you laugh at a character’s behaviour one moment and suddenly understand the hurt under neath it the next. Daria will use the scenes as starting points for an int eractive\, judgement-free conversation about humour\, distraction\, intima cy\, self-awareness and the clever stories we tell ourselves to keep diffi cult feelings at a safe distance. You don’t need to have seen Fleabag or know anything about psychology... just come ready to watch\, laugh\, thin k and perhaps recognize a little bit of yourself along the way. 《伦敦 生活》这部剧特别棒——成熟又幼稚，聪明又好笑。你 会笑，可能会哭，肯定会有一场深刻的讨论。 当某件事 痛到没法直接面对时，你会怎么做？开个玩笑？让自己 忙起来？用理性去分析它？约炮、找架吵、刷手机…… 还是说服自己“我完全没事”？那聪明会不会反而让这 件事更容易？我们越聪明，逃避情绪痛苦的方式就越高 级：我们可以解释它、分析它、嘲笑它，还能构建一套 极其有说服力的论证，说明自己根本不需要去感受它。 但这就一定不健康吗？有时候，躲开痛苦确实能帮我们 撑下去。更有意思的问题可能是：什么时候保护变成了 回避——我们又该怎么分辨这两者？ [...] DTSTAMP:20260912T155822Z LOCATION:China\,\, Shanghai SUMMARY:Watch & Talk: Fleabag - How Do We Hide From Emotional Pain? END:VEVENT END:VCALENDAR