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DESCRIPTION:<a href="http://popcornclubshanghai.com/event/monogamy-its-alte
 rnatives-why-do-people-want-different-relationships-46043/register">Monoga
 my & Its Alternatives: Why Do People Want Different Relationships?</a>\nDo
 es loving someone mean wanting them all to yourself? Can commitment includ
 e the freedom to see other people? And why do some people find security in
  exclusivity while others feel more comfortable with different arrangement
 s? From monogamy to polyamory\, swinging and being “monogamish\,” ther
 e are many ways people organise love\, sex and commitment—and plenty of 
 assumptions about what those choices say about them. What values lie behin
 d each\, and what might we misunderstand about relationships different fro
 m our own? Join us for a lively\, open-minded discussion exploring these r
 elationship styles\, what distinguishes them and why people choose them. T
 hrough relatable scenarios and thought-provoking questions\, we’ll consi
 der the appeal and challenges of each: security and independence\, intimac
 y and variety\, jealousy\, trust and the practical limits of time and atte
 ntion. Along the way\, we’ll question common misconceptions and explore 
 what makes an agreement feel fair to everyone involved. No prior knowledge
  or personal disclosures needed\, just curiosity about how people make rel
 ationships work. 爱一个人，就意味着想把他完全占为己有吗
 ？承诺能不能也包括可以见别人的自由？为什么有些人
 在专一里找到安全感，另一些人却对不同的安排更自在
 ？从一夫一妻制，到多角恋、换偶，还有“差不多一夫
 一妻”，人们组织爱、性和承诺的方式有很多——而对
 这些选择说明了什么，大家也有很多想当然的假设。每
 一种背后是什么价值观，我们又可能对跟自己不一样的
 关系有什么误解？ 跟着我们来聊一场热闹、开放的讨论
 ，聊聊这些关系模式、它们之间差在哪，以及人们为什
 么选它们。通过很能对上的场景和让人想一想的问题，
 我们会聊每一种的吸引力和挑战：安全和独立、亲密和
 新鲜感、嫉妒、信任，还有时间和注意力在现实里的限
 制。过程中，我们会质疑一些常见的误解，也会探讨什
 么样的约定能让每个 involved 的人都觉得公平。不需要任
 何前置知识，也不用分享自己的私事，只要对“人们怎
 么让关系运转起来”有点好奇就行。
DTSTAMP:20261020T004144Z
LOCATION:静安区\, 大田路129弄1-1号嘉发大厦A栋\, Shanghai
SUMMARY:Monogamy & Its Alternatives: Why Do People Want Different Relations
 hips?
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