Who lies more on first dates, guys or girls? Do little white lies make the night smoother, or do they plant seeds of mistrust from the very beginning? Is there such a thing as too much honesty on a first date? According to a recent study of millennials in the US, 43% of people admit to lying on first dates. In this discussion, we’ll explore the fascinating space between lies and honesty when people meet for the first time. From gender differences in the lies people tend to tell, to the blurry line between self-presentation and outright deception, we’ll dive into how first-date conversations shape the potential for trust, attraction, and connection. We’ll also look at the role of insecurity and self-esteem in why people bend the truth, and whether “funny” or “harmless” lies are really harmless at all. At the same time, we’ll tackle the opposite problem: can too much honesty too soon scare someone away? Together, let’s share stories, laugh at the awkwardness, and dig into the psychology behind one of the most universal dating dilemmas. This will be a smart, open, and fun conversation where every perspective matters. 第一次约会时，谁更容易说谎？男生还是女生？那些看似无伤大雅的小谎言，是让夜晚气氛更轻松，还是从一开始就埋下了不信任的种子？而“太诚实”这件事，是不是也有可能吓跑对方？有研究显示，美国有43%的千禧一代承认自己在第一次约会时撒过谎。 这场讨论，我们就来聊聊人在初次见面时，在谎言和坦白之间游走的那些微妙瞬间。从男女在撒谎内容上的差异，到“自我包装”和“刻意欺骗”之间那条模糊的界限，我们会一起聊聊这些对信任、吸引力和进一步连接可能产生的影响。 我们还会聊到不安全感和自尊心在“选择说实话还是美化一下”这件事上的作用，那些所谓“好玩儿”或“无害”的小谎，真的无害吗？同时我们也会讨论另一个极端：是不是有些时候，太早把真实的一面都摊开了，反而会吓到对方？ 一起来分享故事，笑一笑那些尴尬瞬间，也聊聊隐藏在这些“约会套路”背后的心理逻辑。这会是一场轻松又有料的讨论，所有观点都很重要，欢迎带着好奇心来！